I Wish I Was In a Great Relationship

@destinyfabulous but wait... was this idea his or was it something you both had talked about wanting to do together?

@destinyfabulous What does your gut tell you? Personally, I wouldn't do it. If you're married and have the same goals, that would be a different story. If you feel really pressured and don't want to kick him to the curb yet, ask him if he's willing to sign a loan agreement, saying he'll pay you back. This way, if he doesn't, you can sue him for it. If he refuses, you'll know where you stand with this guy.

@Danez his idea. When I told him that I didnt take the loan he said I dont care abt him. What adds to his anger us the fact that I leant my friend money two years ago before we started dating and haven't been paid.

@updown2020 yeah no joint. Its just that I dont think he's into me...I asked a close friend abt it..and he was surprised that my bf will ask me to do that.
However, I'm ok with supporting my bf, but i dont see how this deal is good for me.

@destinyfabulous Well it not good for you I am sorry look at the writing on the wall he want's your money not you because if he was a honest guy he would have insisted your name be on the deed of the property and fact it's not is a bad sign. Keep an eye on your check book and change your pin on your atm card

@canadarm he wants to take the loan....which in order to get he needs a saving...he's getting some of the saving from me....yes taking a loan.

@destinyfabulous how many girlfriends does he have

@Goralski lol...I meant his exes..he treated them to the best of things...

@destinyfabulous Well how do you know he treated them to the best things? Because he told you he did? Well I would find some of these ex's and ask them how much money they gave him. I am sorry you are being used as a ATM

. And that we should keep our finances separate... Not even a nice date or a bday gift
| Keep on reading this every time he asks you for money he wants your money but you are to keep your finances separate??? Wake up. I am sorry do you realise what he is saying to you it seems he wants to do things as a couple when it suits him again (Keep our finances separate but yet he wants your money. No NO NO way . How much money have you given him and was it given or a loan and made clear its a loan?

@nevergiveup yeah sometimes its good to set boundaries early on in the relationship. They only take advantage of you till there.lol

@destinyfabulous we was together 2 years i loved her and she took my money and my heart

ohoh Hun, if she didn't appreciate you then it was good although painful to leave...they hardly ever change.