I Wish I Was In a Great Relationship

my bf wants to build our future by saving to purchase a piece of land. He asked me to take a loan n give him half the money to assist him in getting this land, since he wont get a loan as he dont have a savings as his work has been slow for almost two years. He will.pay back his half of the loan. I didn't take the loan and now he's pissed. He said that we are still together but not treated each other w even a bday present. The thing is my name wasnt gonna be on the land.

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Goralski · 51-55, M

F that why can't he take a loan out

destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

@Goralski he dont have any savings to get a loan. However, when I told him I didn't take the lian he told me that he will save n make it wo my help.... And that we should keep our finances separate... Not even a nice date or a bday gift

Goralski · 51-55, M

@destinyfabulous if you do this you'll b on judge Judy in no time

destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

it breaks my heart that he treats his gfs soooo good, except me...we started of when he was broke n I had an issue when my savings was going down really fast

Goralski · 51-55, M

@destinyfabulous how many girlfriends does he have

destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

@Goralski lol...I meant his exes..he treated them to the best of things...

updown2020 · 61-69, M

@destinyfabulous Well how do you know he treated them to the best things? Because he told you he did? Well I would find some of these ex's and ask them how much money they gave him. I am sorry you are being used as a ATM

. And that we should keep our finances separate... Not even a nice date or a bday gift
| Keep on reading this every time he asks you for money he wants your money but you are to keep your finances separate??? Wake up. I am sorry do you realise what he is saying to you it seems he wants to do things as a couple when it suits him again (Keep our finances separate but yet he wants your money. No NO NO way . How much money have you given him and was it given or a loan and made clear its a loan?