I Wish I Was In a Great Relationship

my bf wants to build our future by saving to purchase a piece of land. He asked me to take a loan n give him half the money to assist him in getting this land, since he wont get a loan as he dont have a savings as his work has been slow for almost two years. He will.pay back his half of the loan. I didn't take the loan and now he's pissed. He said that we are still together but not treated each other w even a bday present. The thing is my name wasnt gonna be on the land.