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I Have A Controlling Husband

So my husband claims to be stalking all of my online activities. If he is, HELLOOOOOOOOO. HOW ARE YOU TODAY?
4meAndyou · F
My ex was also very controlling. It is not good, and it is not funny. Just wait till he starts doing things like searching through your purse looking for gosh knows what.

People who are that controlling were traumatized as children. They are usually the children of alcoholic or abusive parents, whose lives were SO out of control that the only way they can hold on to their own sanity is to try to control everything and everyone around them to try to keep themselves safe.

If you threaten his control, he may devolve into violent behaviors to preserve it, so be very careful. This should be a giant red flag.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
That’s really creepy. Tell him to find a hobby or do yard work. He needs a life.
BlueRain · F
At least take your pic off your profile.
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crownedwithlaurel97 · 26-30, F
has anyone told you that you look like Supernanny?
SW-User
Oh yeah 😂👍@crownedwithlaurel97
Lloorrii2 · 46-50, F
@crownedwithlaurel97 super nanny? No. But lmao
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
That is when u change your name. And move across the country
rachelsj · 22-25, F
sounds like he's insecure
SW-User
Dang. That must be rough. Of course one should always be honest and transparent with a spouse, but again... stalking sounds like a lack of trust.
SW-User
If there’s no trust you have nothing just being honest. You need trust in both sides to make a marriage or relationship work.
LookingForIt987 · 51-55, M
And if he is and happens to see this: Grow the fuck up, dude. Seriously?
Doctrble · 46-50, M
So now isn't the time to say honey I will be there tonight after he falls asleep?
luctoretemergo · 61-69, M
If your going to commit a crime....make it a good one!...go all in!
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
That doesn't sound like a healthy relationship.
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
Haha, well that is one good way to confront it.
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
acpguy · C
I do not do that with my wife as it would probably be boring and I am better off not knowing as I love her and trust her.
SW-User
The use of caps is a bit forceful, but otherwise it seems to be a fair question if not asked every minute.
SW-User
You don't want to know what she's been up to! haha.
496sbc · 36-40, M
thats why u need to revv more and make im pay dearly
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
so now he knows we are talking
Tminus6453 · M
Give him his own SW account😏
SunshineJ · 41-45, F
Why do you put your photo up then?
HueyPLong · M
Big Howdy too him as well.
SW-User
you should leave him lol
Mr7inch · 31-35, M
Sorry to hear that
SW-User
🙌Liberty is yours
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
What a dick.
Doctrble · 46-50, M
Kick his ass
Lvtep0069 · 56-60, M
😂Good girl!
MrLuck · 31-35, M
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
Hello, dear. You left the coffee pot on.
Lloorrii2 · 46-50, F
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
Are you going to tell him we went on a date last week to 😊
@Justenjoyit I know you don’t mean harm by it but teasing things like that can have consequences.
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
@DarkHeaven very true, I surpose I dont think that way 😔
@Justenjoyit Just be careful. ✌️

 
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