I Think Good Friends Are Rare

@ThePerfectUsername please message me....lets talk about this properly because i dont know what ive done?

I have no requirement to talk about it further until such time as you're able to understand the things I've already said and that no malice was ever intended. I was wrong about one fact in particular that I wasn't aware of - but so far as I can see that should have been covered by [b]the whole truth[/b] part of my last post. You simply can't keep so-called friends in the dark that way then blame any misunderstanding on them for not chasing you up personally to double check that what you'd written was in fact The Whole Truth. You've thrown my best attempt at friendship away and I honestly don't know that I'll ever want to go there again with you. @RubySoo

@ThePerfectUsername i told you in a private message what it was about. I didnt say everything publically because not everyone thats reads public threads are my friends....or Nunos friends and those people didnt need to know everything.

Ive appologised and tried my best to explain my reasons....i can do no more.
Stay safe and look after yourself.

@RubySoo I know but it's always a risk telling information about yourself because you never know the person you're dealing with

@SW-User of course. As i say....it depends on the depth of the friendship. Theres dozen her i interact with here i k ow nothing about other than their user name and age. We share giggles, songs, opinions.....and thats cool.
But the ones ive gotten to know better....weve usually gotten to a point where we do share names and where we live... but by that im not talking actual address!! Lol

@in10RjFox Yes! Why not let things unfold naturally through conversation. I absolutely hate the 50 questions from someone I just met.

@newgirl yeah.. there is so much time .. and such a beautiful medium where we can talk to so many without conflicting and without so many real life interruptions..

Imagine the days of penpals writing and replying weeks apart..

@SW-User I had a similar experience back on EP with someone who was unstable. I'm more guarded here. I've had a few here get mad that I won't tell them my first name or where I live. They don't have a right to know that information unless I'm ready and willing to share it. I have no problem not being friends with people like that.

@ChampagneOnIce Be careful , I hope the both of us are safe here

@SW-User I feel safe for the most part. People get offended by the silliest things nowadays. I was recently blocked by someone because I didn’t reply to his message even though there was nothing for me to reply to in it. He basically said something like, “chat later.” It didn’t require a response, and I don’t like chatting which is clearly stated in my About Me and my message intro. Yet he got all bent out of shape about it. 🙄 I blocked him back and carried on with my day. 😄 I don’t have the time nor patience for people like that.

Exactly but one guy here lectured the hell out of me because I wouldn't share my information with him.@Pinto

@SW-User I'd say he's butt-hurt that you wouldn't share....and possibly had illicit intent in his correspondence with you. His lecture is his issue...not yours. He should have cherished your presence as is rather than be more demanding. Just my opinion.

@Pinto He was very pushy and demanding, it was ridiculous.

@SW-User I don't see how - for example - you knowing that my name is Anthony, I live near Liverpool in the UK and that I'm between 61 and 69 years old, means you could possibly trace me.

@ArtieKat What about if they have your phone number?

@SW-User There's only one friend from EP days who has my phone number and whom I talk to regularly.

@SW-User ....if only

The guy is insane and he expected me to give him my phone number, lol. @Serpico

True @antonioio

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@FORMERLYbatovn 👍🏼

@StellaBlue sneaks over and pokes stella cheek runs away 👀

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@Zonuss How ??

@SW-User TearsOfTheFalls.

@Zonuss oh ok