I Am Struggling With My Sexuality I was sexually abused when I was 8 years old by my mother's...

I was 4 years old when my uncle started, lasted until I was 10 or 11 every time he came to visit. (then my sister's husband took over when I was 13)

So I can certainly relate. I didn't tell a single soul about the uncle until I was 28 and then went to therapy for a few years. It helped a lot. It's something you should consider doing for yourself.

SW-User

My heart goes out to you. I agree that having someone to talk to may be the help you need.. a counselor or therapist.. hugs

iagreed · 61-69, M

I feel so sorry that you had to go through this as a child but it's even worse now that you are still being hurt by it as an adult. Please get some therapy and don't let him continue to hurt you. You must make your recovery your top priority you have suffered too much already.
Best wishes

DanielChristensen · 46-50, M

So sorry you had to endure this terrible abuse. Please consider counseling it can really help you grow, find perspective and develop health attitudes toward sexuality

constance

My heart goes out to you sweetie ... even though I'm a pervy, crossdressing guy I have no tolerance for those that abuse others. I hope you can find a good counsellor or perhaps get into meditation to help you make sense of things and heal. All the best to you!

Bluesky53 · 61-69, M

well one,i'm sorry,it has happened to my sister,like most people,he got away with it,noboby backing my sis,my grandma didn't want her son in jain,his wife in deniel,,,,,,i'm very sorry,,,about you touching yourself in fear,i don't know,,,,,

Myself11 · 61-69, M

I am so sorry that had to be a horrible experience I do hope one day you find that special person and you be able to enjoy them to the fullest

mathsman · 70-79, M

How are you coping with the conflict?

Beebo · M

That's awful and sad at the same time, should of never happened. I hope you over come that fear some day. By law in some countries, you can still push the charges.

rfhh1959 · 61-69, M

I still deal with issues from a family friend from when I was 8 I understand

diablo · 46-50, M

Awwwww :( I had no idea. I'm so very sorry to know that you had to experience that from a relative who children are supposed to trust. :(

SW-User

You should tell your parents. I am sorry you went through this.

Rambler · M

I do hope you can overcome your fears one day.

karmameter · 46-50, M

just dont mix up the two. life will be easy.

SW-User

I pray for your healing.

SoggedNapped · 31-35, M

I feel for you! A huge burden to carry for such a long time. Have you thought about therapy or having a good, honest discussion with a close friend? But just know it isn't your fault.. It is very ok to feel what you feel. IT doesn't make you bad or wrong.. Hugs

taneegoan · 31-35, F

so painful

Tukudo · 41-45, M

That's so sad😞...pls immediately come out of that unpleasant memory and mind pattern, do some catharsis technique and become free to enjoy your beautiful life🙂.

missit15 · 56-60, M

I am sorry for your abuse. It is something that you should not be afraid of. You didnt do anything. You are not alone... be strong, be safe.

Khenpal1 · M

look beyond past like any person with anxiety . Probably with small steps you could go beyond current fear.

Happyguy123 · 46-50, M

Soz to here that hope u can one day x

mathsman · 70-79, M

I was abused too at age 13

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penguinswon · M

so sorry