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I Lost a Child

I lost my son in June. I struggle every day to make sense of it all. This has to be the most painful thing I have ever experienced in my life. No parent should ever have to bury their own child. He left me his beautiful little boy to raise and care for. I see so much of my son in my grandson. I will miss him until the end of my days.

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JerseyGal · 51-55, F

My thoughts & prayers go out to you. May you always have the strength to keep going & the memories to share with your grandson.

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JerseyGal · 51-55, F

@jaymic64 You're very welcome.

jaymic64 · M

It's refreshing to come across genuine people 😊

JerseyGal · 51-55, F

@jaymic64 It sure is! 😊

bella8kins · 36-40, F

That is very sad, I'm sorry for your loss. I know you'll give your grandson a wonderful life and keep the memory of his father alive💙🙏🏼

Mondayschild · F

I am sorry. I had the shock of my life when my nephew was murdered. You will be in my thoughts.🌷

lovelywarpedlemon

Wow... It's so strange, the way life unravels... I'm sorry. I can't imagine how that is for you. It must be hard. What now? You have his son, your grandson to care for. Do you think everything happens for a reason?

jaymic64 · M

Sometimes I wonder. I know my grandson is in a better place. He has brought a spark to my life for sure. @lovelywarpedlemon

lovelywarpedlemon

@jaymic64 Good luck and best wishes to you and your grandson.

jaymic64 · M

Thank you. It really means a lot. @lovelywarpedlemon

wiltingflower · 51-55, F

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I agree, no parent should bury their child.My Mum experienced this pain.We lost my sister at 21. Hold his memories close..they will get you thru the tough times. Think how blessed you are for those moments.

jaymic64 · M

Thanks for the kind words. @wiltingflower

Bean17 · 51-55, F

Wow I’m so sorry! My heart aches for you and I cannot even fathom the amount and depth of your pain.💔Words fail me, but I hope you’re healing. What a blessing you have in your precious grandson!💕 Hugs to you..🤗

jaymic64 · M

Thank you so much. @Bean17

Coralmist · 41-45, F

I am so sorry :/ your son will never be away from you: he's IN you even. *hugggg. He is IN his own son too, with you each day....

jaymic64 · M

Thanks. I see him in that lil guy every day. @Coralmist

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@jaymic64 And you have his laugh with you, his smile, his essence too.... he's not gone. All good wishes and thoughts to you J

jaymic64 · M

Thank you for the kind words @Coralmist

Angeleyez · 51-55, F

I’m so sorry, I understand this pain all too well. *hug*

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Angeleyez · 51-55, F

@jaymic64 so sorry darling. Truly

jaymic64 · M

Thanks so much for caring 🤗@Angeleyez

Angeleyez · 51-55, F

@jaymic64 🤗

SW-User

What a terrible loss for you to experience. Though your grandson can't replace your son, i hope he brings you joy and helps you hold the memory of your son.

jaymic64 · M

@SW-User thanks. I'm sure it will take some time.

PoetryNEmotion · F

Damn. There are no words to comfort you. How old is this angel-boy? Must be beyond mortal words to see your son in his eyes! You are blessed to help him become a man.

jaymic64 · M

Thank you. My lil guy will be three this Sunday. @PoetryNEmotion

Mert5356 · 41-45, M

I can understand where you are coming from. There have been two suicides in my family (I am not a father), but my mom goes through it in her own way.

PoetryNEmotion · F

You are dealing well with this whole life thing. I am so proud of you, Jaymic. Keep us updated. I know you can do this. Golden day to you, my friend.

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jaymic64 · M

Thanks. I appreciate that. @Jimson

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beepbopbeep · 31-35, F

I'm sorry for your loss. I saw your answer to my question and thought I'd go to your profile.

jaymic64 · M

Thank you @beepbopbeep

Newfound · 41-45, M

I lost my daughter 4 years ago and understand your pain. I'm deeply sorry for your loss.

jaymic64 · M

Thanks. Not the club I wanted to join. @Newfound

Newfound · 41-45, M

@jaymic64 I agree.

SW-User

I feel very sorry for your loss 😔 may he rest in peace and you find your happiness soon.

jaymic64 · M

Thanks 🙏 @SW-User

PixieParty · 41-45, F

This is so heartbreaking. 😓

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PixieParty · 41-45, F

I can only imagine. I have kids and grandkids myself. (((hugs))) from the interwebs.

jaymic64 · M

@PixieParty thanks so much.

PixieParty · 41-45, F

Any time. Any. Time.

HappyHeart · 56-60, F

That is heartbreaking. I am truly sorry.

jaymic64 · M

Thanks. I'm still a mess but getting better. @HappyHeart

HappyHeart · 56-60, F

I don't see how you'd ever get better. Spend your time loving that precious grandson and telling him stories of his father. ❤️@jaymic64

jaymic64 · M

Yes. Everyday. @HappyHeart

MellyMel22 · F

I can't even begin to imagine.. I'm so sorry for your loss ❤️

jaymic64 · M

Thank you. I'm still struggling. @MellyMel22

MellyMel22 · F

@jaymic64 😔

dentope3 · M

lost my wife and son on the same day. still painful after all these years

blendednotshaken · 51-55, M

Sorrow roams in places it shouldn't.

jaymic64 · M

Thanks @blendednotshaken

blendednotshaken · 51-55, M

Thoughts are with you.

SW-User

I am so very sorry...😢

jaymic64 · M

@SW-User thanks. I’m actually starting to get my shit back together. I got this.

SW-User

@jaymic64 Of course you do...I never doubted that for one minute,but if you ever need to talk to anyone feel free to message me...🤗

jaymic64 · M

@SW-User that means a lot. Thanks.

dentope3 · M

deepest sympathies to you. I know the heartbreak of losing a child

SW-User

I'm so sorry for your loss. I cannot even imagine.

jaymic64 · M

Thanks Rae. You've always been kind. @SW-User

Underconstruction · F

My condolences. I am sorry for your loss.

jaymic64 · M

Thank you @Underconstruction

donutworryboutit · 26-30, F

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm here if you need someone to talk to.

SplitOfAuthority · 56-60, F

I am deeply sorry for your terrible loss.

jaymic64 · M

Thank you @SplitOfAuthority

SW-User

Im so sorry .

jaymic64 · M

Thank you for caring @SW-User

SW-User

@jaymic64 Yw. I have a son too and I can't even imagine... Sending much light to you 🌷💛

jaymic64 · M

I need that more than you know. 😊@SW-User

ravenwind43 · 51-55, F

I am so sorry for your loss :( ((hug))

jaymic64 · M

Thanks. @ravenwind43

Honeylove · 46-50, F

I am so sorry this is heartbreaking.

jaymic64 · M

Thanks @Honeylove

SpiritOfSoul · 31-35, F

This is really very sad.

jaymic64 · M

Thanks for caring @SpiritOfSoul

Aquarius39 · 41-45, F

So sorry to hear

jaymic64 · M

Coming up on one year 😒@Aquarius39

boklenholley7 · F

I'm sorry for loss.

jaymic64 · M

Thanks @boklenholley7

Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Pinkslippers · 31-35, F

This breaks my heart

jaymic64 · M

@Pinkslippers thanks for reading. It's only been since the end of June. He would have been 29 this month. I think of him every moment of every day.

Room66 · 36-40, F

Sorry for your loss

jaymic64 · M

Thank you @Room66

Peaches · F

I'm so sorry.💔

jaymic64 · M

Thanks. @Peaches

blueumbrella · 31-35, F

I'm sorry for your loss.

Teresa628 · 56-60, F

So so sorry for your loss.

SW-User

sorry

jaymic64 · M

Thank you @SW-User

jaymic64 · M

Thank you.

jaymic64 · M

Thanks

Zoopher · M

Tough shit bitch, don't fuckin troll my site you useless cunt

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jaymic64 · M

Yes. He is special lol@SW-User

SW-User

@jaymic64 Special kind of batshit

jaymic64 · M

Definitely. @SW-User

SStarfish ·

:/ :(

Zoopher · M

Oh go fuck yourself you trolling cunt

froggtongue · M

I am very sorry for your loss.

Salix75 · 46-50, F

☹ So sorry to hear about your son

bijouxbroussard · F

I'm so sorry. 😞

jaymic64 · M

Thanks so much @bijouxbroussard

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