Tell me the scariest thing that’s ever happened to you.

@SW-User omg I’m so sorry that happened to you! 😢

@Loretta78.What a shame for the German legal system, which often, or rather too often, protects the perpetrators instead of their victims.


This sounds cruel, both for your son and for you, who had to listen to his crying without being able to help him.


The years until he came of age must have cost you a lot of strength, so it's reassuring to read you both made it, now you can relax while being proud of what you have accomplished together with him.

@RobinPhoenix You are wrong. This hasn´t happened in Germany. All this has happened in Belgium. And well: I didn´t go to the police for some VERY GOOD reasons.

Well, I am very happy that now everything is over. It is a nice feeling to relax with my son. And I know I could get ill now or even die, and it wouldn´t matter because he is an adult now. 🙂

@Loretta78 Since I don't know the details of your experiences, I could only go by what I knew of you so far, which was obviously not enough to properly assess what you said here.




I understand what you mean: it's a good feeling not being responsible anymore.

@SW-User (((HUGS)))

@kodiac what the fuck, who

@kodiac I’m sorry- that’s messed up!

@RobinPhoenix You even don´t know HOW MUCH I understand you and your fear of losing your father.

Youo know, when I was 13 my mother had a TERRIBLE accident. She was for 1 months or even more in coma, and actually I was asked to go to an orphanage because I never had a father. I had to say thank you to my teacher in school who managed everything that I didn´t have to go to orphanage. But nobody knew for a looonng time if my mother would survive. Thankfully she did!

But also my fear is still here to lose her one day - and I KNOW I will lose her sooner or later (that´s the circe of life!). And the day when I will lose her will be my worst one because I live socially totally isolated. I have no friends, no husband - nobody. Just my brother who calls me maybe twice a year and my son, who lives in a big geographically distance.

Well, it is what it is. 🤷‍♀️

But I am glad to know that your father has such a proud age and that he is fit physically and mentally! 👍🙂

@Loretta78 My sympathy to your 13 year old self who had to experience such a terrible and threatening time and had to go through it alone, without the assistance and support of a father or other close relatives. You must have felt very lonely at that time and simply overwhelmed by what was happening and what it would mean for your life if your mother wouldn´t come back from hospital. Fortunately she came back and was able to be by your side until now. I hope for your sake that she can continue to do so for many years to come.

We know that the circles of life always close at some point, for one sooner and for the other later, and yet we do not want to admit it when it affects our own loved ones. I think it's a kind of self-protection we surround ourselves with so we can be able to enjoy the time we have with our loved ones as intensely as possible.

You must have experienced a lot of disappointment in your life to live in such isolation and I am very sorry for that.

@RobinPhoenix Well, it is what it is. 🤷‍♀️

@bijouxbroussard man that would freak me out too! Especially if it was just me and I didn’t see my other classmates being taken away. I hope it didn’t traumatize you!

@SW-User AH!! I bet you can still feel them crawling up your skin as your reminisce about this!

@saintsong (((HUGS)))

Thank you nobody has ever given me a hug for where I’ve been and what I’ve been through even when it’s all I ever wanted so thank you (((Hugs)))@Iwillwait

@saintsong You are so welcome. That's an Incredible Testimony of Honour to Our Lord Jesus and Father God.

@wackidywack that IS scary!!

@Raine oh my goodness! I hope you have a restraining order against him now or that he’s far away from you.

@Jabulani dang I hope it wasn’t for work!