If a friend tells you they need space, how long should be appropriate? In this case she never...

SwampFlower · 31-35, F

In my experience it usually means forever. Never contact them again.

If someone tells you they need space, it is a nice way of saying they do not want contact with you. Just let it go and move forward.

SW-User

Are you worried about them or selfishly worried about YOUR relationship with them?

"Give me space" usually means "I'll contact you when I'm goddamn ready."

SW-User

Maybe just not initiate contact from now on. Give them the space and see if they even bother to come back.

DrScissorhands

If a friend has to tell you they need space, you need to self evaluate

Miram · 31-35, F

Nothing wrong with needing space. People are different.

Notanymore · 36-40, M

If she says she needs space, it's up to her to decide how much

smiler2012 · 61-69

{@smahala1991 ] your friend may have sonmething going on that has upset her and may not wish to talk about . i am sure it is nothing to do with your personal friendship . just does as she asks and let her come to you when the time is right for her

FunkyFlow · 36-40, F

Space is healthy and comparing one person's needs to another or thinking there is an appropriate schedule for friendship is toxic. Evaluate yourself and if youre being too needy or taking too much.

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

Because they are looking for something else. Heck, they may not know what themselves.

They will come back if and when they are ready.

Grabthembywussy

I don't like to communicate everyday. Only when we meet.

Sidewinder · 36-40, M

It varies, due to a number of factors.

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

It can also take 6 months.

SW-User

As long as they need it.