Everyone else is "cool" or "cute" and I'm just "nice"?

@KiwiDan: Everytime I saw some man change like that, I always said to myself, [i]Man, I'd give anything to have someone as sweet as you. I'd treasure you.[/i], but what an absolute turn-off to see someone turn into a smartelic (sp?) just because of that. I run from those type people. Know your worth. You just have to meet the right one who realizes and appreciates your worth. She's out there. Don't give up. And please don't change. I've looked for someone [i]nice[/i] all my life. Never found him. Too many jerks. Treasure who you are. The right one will, believe me.

@GraceFromEP: I'm glad to hear that. But like I said, men turning into that tends to be a result of women hurting them too often. I mean, we do what we can and get rejected pretty much every time. Then you see/hear about other men who are (for lack of a better term) drowning in women, and they all seem to be fuckheads. So we start thinking that we have to be like that to get anywhere with women. It might also help if women like you showed thoughts like that more; it would do absolute wonders for men like me to see/hear that.

@KiwiDan: What you've just described is common to women, too. I've always noticed it's the horrible women who seem to get men falling at her feet. Why? I sure wouldn't know, but men seem to worship women like that. I've been rejected all my life. I know the feeling all too well. It hurts and it hurts bad. You see, I've been one of the [i]nice ones[/i] too, and it got me nowhere, but that doesn't give me the right to turn into a bitter jerk.

@SimplyTracie: I guess..... But even they seem more interested in each other than me.

@KiwiDan: They must have more in common with each other then. They ain't cool anyway. Screw them. 😂😂😂

Go find new buddies that is more like yourself.

@SimplyTracie: Oh. OK.

It tends to leave me forgotten though. I'm so one dimensional that I'm a caricature, aren't I? 😭

[c=#BF0080]I hope that came out right because it's almost 4 in the morning here so my thoughts aren't exactly clear lol.[/c]

@Pinkrainbowkisses: No, it made sense.

It's the fact that those other two make you not get forgotten.

@Johntom: But there exists nothing that fits that description! 😭

Then find something. Jesus if all you did was volunteer you'd be different then most people...

@Johntom: Do you not understand that I've been trying to do that for a while now? And volunteering seems to be all that's available to me, since I can't even get a job. I'm a failure, and probably better forgotten.

Thanks. How do I narrate things? I mean, I wasn't even aware that I do that until you mentioned it.

Its just the way you reference your awkwardness in real time. It cracks me up

Like I said, I have no idea I'm doing that. To be honest, that's just the way I speak. Although, I can't tell if you'd be laughing at me or with me in that situation 🤔 (I genuinely cannot tell).

Yes, that's true. But it has its own downside in being so forgettable.

[c=#BF0080]I think this is the point I was trying to make.. you said it way better than I did lol.[/c]

I see. Well good luck with that; it's beyond my abilities, but hopefully you will see success!

@KiwiDan: Thank You

@TheLadiesMan: You're welcome. Although, if I may make an off-topic suggestion: please don't capitalise random words; it's jarring and can make your posts harder to read than they should be. I know you don't do it all the time, but it's something worth looking into. You do well in pretty much every other area though.

@KiwiDan: 🤔 maybe you're too nice for your own good but It can be changed

@dark548: How? :?

@KiwiDan: be in the present moment, accept yourself fully. Be comfortable with yourself first and don't depend too much on others approval. At least that's what's worked for me.

And that's how I know that the dog will be remembered, and I will not.

@KiwiDan: Hey don't think that way..

To someone maybe. I just am tired of being forgettable.

@KiwiDan: i hear you