Why don’t people like me? So I went bowling with a friend of mine. She’s always been really att...

Girls aren’t all that much better but I can totally relate. When I was in high school, my best friend Julie, blonde haired, blue eyed, built like a brick shithouse Julie, got all the male attention while I stood next to her like a human speedbump. 🙄

I know it’s not easy but hang in there, your time will come.

Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F

You look lovely, and not every guy will like your friend better. One day, hopefully soon you will find someone who can see you are way better

DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M

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Qwerty14

Sounds like you're the DUFF in the relationship. Because of that, guys may ask you to set them up with you're more attractive friends because you're easier to approach.

But DUFFs have their time in the sun eventually. It just takes them a little longer. Your friend isn't actually that much more attractive than you and you have just as much to offer a guy. Once you realise that you'll be on your way to finding a bf yourself.

cd4259 · 61-69, M

You look stunning honey. Someone will snap you up out of the blue and be lucky to have you.

english · 56-60, M

I think its really tacky when guys do that,grow a pair ,or just grow up. 😎 there seems to be one of those girls/men in every group . your turn will come ,good things happen to good people 🌈🤗

TheeOriginalAmazingsEXLover · M

I have a question, why do you not care about your self esteem and worth?

IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M

Girls are shallow, too. Not just guys. The same thing has happened to me before with girls liking my friends over me. I'm always the unattractive friend.

11knaves11 · 41-45, M

It sounds like your a tad bit on the jealous side...so hear me out. Is it possible that when your with her and she's garnering all the attention, could you be possibly turning attention away cause your vibe is telling guys to leave you the fuck alone? Like the energy you give off while your with her might be turning dudes away? *This is perspective not necessarily even my opinion* I've never seen either of you or been around either of you. So Im just offering an angle you may haven't contemplated...

DarlingSelah ·

Just get an ugly friend & stop crying

TexChik · F

Men are like that ... probably your weight is the issue . Can you keto ? I have told several about keto because women in my office ( who were 60-100 lbs over weight ) lost it and the inches . It’s changed their lives and they were in their 50’s . You’re really young and could easily do it . 😉👍🏻

SheikYerbouti · 51-55, M

If the situation was reversed, then men wouldn't be shallow I take it.

SW-User

maybe asking you for her number is just a way of him talking to you.. maybe he is just approaching this all wrong

Addictedtoglamour · 31-35, M

Nobody likes me either. I swear to God in the gay community if you aren't a really cute twink type or muscular and gorgeous everyone wants nothing to do with you.

Bagalamaga · 56-60, M

Walk around with a girl less attractive than you are. Contrast draws people’ s attention

elafina · 36-40, F

Some are late bloomers, enjoy your life and the more you enjoy it, the higher the possibilities it'll come :) take care

Notmesam

Let’s see a pic of your friend

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

Keep being pleasant, keep your chin up and your heart open and it will happen