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Why don’t people like me?

So I went bowling with a friend of mine. She’s always been really attractive, and even when I was thin people always asked me “Hey, is your friend seeing anyone? Could you set me up with her?” No one ever asks me out. So when we went bowling, I recognized the person at the counter. He had been in one of my classes last semester. He came over to check on us a couple of times. My friend called me later to tell me that she thought he liked me because he walked away when he saw I was taking a phone call and looked disappointed. Well, today he added me on Facebook and messaged me asking for my best friend’s number. I’m so pissed off. I don’t even really care if the guy likes me or not, I’m just pissed that my friend gets everything. I’ve never been asked out in my life, and she gets hit on everywhere she goes. Why are guys so shallow?
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I have a question, why do you not care about your self esteem and worth?
@marilynmichelle
I apologize if that was taken rude; but the majority of issues individuals have are issues they have deeply seeded with themselves, which comes out as anger.
No, it wasn’t at all! I know what you mean. @TheeOriginalAmazingsEXLover
@marilynmichelle
The issue you have with everyone that is fit, they might have an issue with being shallow, take you for example; you have more issues with bein' hateful.
The guy wasn’t even fit. He’s bigger than I am. @TheeOriginalAmazingsEXLover
@marilynmichelle
I was gifted in sports, great metabolism, it's not that I chose to be skinny or buff. I get judged everyday, an athletic guy may not even care that you are heavier.
And I’m not hating. Never said there was anything wrong with being fit. @TheeOriginalAmazingsEXLover
I didn’t mean to generalized I know not every guy on the planet is shallow.@TheeOriginalAmazingsEXLover
@marilynmichelle
You assume every male is shallow, this thought process is very shallow of you regardless if you see it that way or not.
I JUST said that I didn’t mean to assume that every man was shallow. I know that not every man is. @TheeOriginalAmazingsEXLover
@marilynmichelle
I'm in great physical condition, I pride myself on that. Is this my fault you are not?
Of course not. And there’s nothing wrong with not finding bigger people physically attractive. What IS wrong is not basing things on who someone is on the inside rather than just the fact that they are cute. @TheeOriginalAmazingsEXLover
@marilynmichelle
I concur with your prognosis, on this.
@TheeOriginalAmazingsEXLover
I know many lady that are just as shallow in the opposite way, direction.