Are some people just born in this life a failure?

@Danez none of it seems fair you try your hardest to learn from other people's mistakes you try to be good but still everyday life beats you down

@LeahUnknown yeah I know... but I look at it this way. Take whatever small victories you experience cherish and celebrate them. You cannot measure your successes against other's successes. That is a sure recipe for stress and anxieties. I used to think that is what everyone must do... if someone else gets a house and a new car then I must need to do that. But there are many many other things I can celebrate and count as MY success, like that I have 3 really good kids that are caring and beautiful on the inside and out. We enjoy spending time together and thinking about friends and family. Sure I have my share of failures but I can't dwell on them or let them define my life.

I congratulate you. I’m not judging either and I never would wish for somome to give up or even feel that way. I’m just saying personally for me on the subject of giving up because I’ve been there and I’m there right now. it isn’t always as selfish as some may think sometimes just staying for someone is also selfish. (Just my opinion)

@NightGalleries very sadly yes

We will never have equality of outcome because people have different abilities, no matter what, I am never going to run 100 metres as fast as Usain Bolt. Some people will be able to develop quantum equations but that is certainly beyond my mathematical abilities @MethDozer

@Tuscan Yet equality of outcome is what the current uprisings are trying to create and move us away from equality of opportunity.
Though your analogy doesn't work and doesn't have anything to do with the principle of equality of outcome. Equality of outcome means everyone basically has all has the same amount of wealth and success in life as anyone else. The lazy dumb fuck gets to eat the same kind of steak as the engineer so to speak..

so nobody will have any incentive to work hard or study ?
Not sure anybody would either want that or expect it to work. @MethDozer

@FurryFace look up gary vee

@Area51 no thanks , couldn't be bothered