Does a genuinely nice guy ever end up marrying a mean lady?

everyone is sometimes very nice, even Ted Bundy or Hitler were nice sometimes, and sometimes someone falls in love with that nice side hoping that with lots of love their good side will win and take over and the bad side will dissapear. In reality, we all have good aspects and bad aspects and they are all part of us. My rule about this is dont base a decision to be with someone or not on how good their good side is, everyone's good side is good, but rather on how bad their bad side is.

Yes. It's all about luck. Because nice pretty girls don't marry poor or average looking guys. Money is important for them.

My late husband, the best of the nice guys, explained his first marriage with, "My brain got cross-wired with my gonads."

Typically desperation in both parties. One wants to finally get the girl, one wants to settle, so they both overlook red flags.

Can put up with anything, that's the main reason.

Very often..

Why? Opposites Attract..

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And likewise woman marry Wife beaters every day..

Sadly, yes they do... and they don't always see their wife's behaviour as abuse, either.

I try to be nice but not let myself be bullied. Therefore, I'm single.

Of course! Happens all the time. I could cite examples but I'd start talking too much and crying in an unmanly way

Yes. I wish I knew why, thinking of someone not-so-nice who married into my family.