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Are you one of those cowards that ghost people instead of being honest?

JupiterDreams · 31-35 Best Comment
I don't ghost people... But they've ghosted me
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@JupiterDreams same here.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
@RubySoo 🤗
@JupiterDreams kicks back in leather chair with pen and pad " so ..when did this unsettling feeling begin?"

SW-User
Isn't that a little childish
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@SW-User Yep, and common traits of a narc
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@SW-User sure is
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@SW-User And usually a repeat offender
MySecretIdentity1 · 46-50, M
No. I don't like when someone does that to me. He a grown up. It might not be fun, but often people are surprised at how little the other person is distressed. Not telling them just makes them more upset and may start being a little stalkerish trying to figure out what is going on.
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Nope I tell it straight
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@SW-User good way to be
I only ghost people who can't take no as an answer or act in some other revolting way.
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@boklenholley7 that's a different story if you say no that should be it
@SW-User agreed.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Yes. Sometimes they don’t deserve an explanation, they know why they were ghosted.
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@Keepitsimple if someone did something shitty that's understandable but if you're actually dating someone and you give them no reason just ghost that's not cool
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@SW-User I wouldn’t ghost somebody for the hell of it 😉
Not pale enough
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Seriously?@BeefySenpie
@Keepitsimple I'm seriously not pale yes 😐
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
I prefer to come out with it....
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
What do you think? 🤬🖕
I don't ghost people, sometimes I do get busy, however I wont constantly chase someone and make that point of contact all the time, they need to put the effort in as well. As eventually I stop.
I've only ghosted one person. But they just would not talk. I'd have to keep the whole conversation going and they would either hmm or give one word/syllable responses.
I tell them it is over and then block them from all contact with me. No second chances.
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@Anonymartyr if you tell them it's not ghosting
@SW-User That is correct.
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Nope not yet anyways, dishonest is dishonest no matter how ya slice it. One doesn't make another right
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@SW-User exactly
Johnblackthorn · 56-60, M
Ghost obviously has many different reasons, I was forced to ghost two men in a pub a few years ago, there was no dishonesty in involved.
No, I express my lack of interest and if they persist, I just ignore them.
SarahAndSamantha · 46-50, F
I'm more of a banshee than just a ghost
RubySoo · 56-60, F
Id never ghost.
yeronlyman · 51-55, M
I will say what I say, but there comes a point of self preservation
User41 · 36-40, M
MarkPaul · 26-30, M

 
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