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What's your thoughts on a grown man 40something

still playing women, not wanting to get married, lying to women by telling them he loves them, and making them fall in love with him by being charming. Once they fall in love with him, then he breaks it off with them. And he does this over and over again.
SW-User
Oh, so you've met my ex?
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@SW-User Ouch. Sorry, that sounds like it was hell to be married to.
SW-User
@CountScrofula live and learn, eh?
Fairydust · F
@SW-User we do! 😬☺️
SW-User
Sounds like a narcissist. He needs that attention and adoration like he needs to breathe. At the very least he is a dysfunctional immature playah
Carissimi · 70-79, F
Sounds like a narcissist. They love to play games with people, then move on. There is no changing them. It’s who they are.
Magenta · F
@Carissimi And they never see or admit how they are.
Carissimi · 70-79, F
True. They think very highly of themselves. It’s always someone else’s fault. @Magenta
Magenta · F
@Carissimi Spot on. Plus they are experts at wearing an ultra charming mask to get what they want.
gurlwatcher22 · 61-69, M
In a few years he will lose his charm and his gift of gab.He'll soon be a lonely old man,lol.
Fairydust · F
@gurlwatcher22 very true... sad
SW-User
Not wanting to get married at 40 or ever...is ok, personal choice but the rest...he could be a sociopath on the low.
ImpeccablyImperfect · 51-55, F
He’s a goddamn loser. That’s what I think of him.
SW-User
Lace up your shoes, tie them, and run as fast as you can in the other direction!
I would say he is extremely insecure and feels the need to be loved, but at the same time doesn't think he deserves love, he is likely extremely depressed. Now does that mean I condone his actions? No I do not but I understand what is likely making him tick and I think he is in need of some serious help. I would also fear that if he does not get what he wants he could become dangerous.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
The challenge and because they are very sick in the head.
Mrsmeta · 46-50, F
He has got issues and will waste your time. Move on
Fairydust · F
Narcissist...
I think he's going to a lonely old man wondering why he doesn't have anyone that loves him. It probably makes him feel powerful. In control, I can't understand why a man would want to do that, mother issues maybe who knows
JacksonBlue · 31-35, M
Sounds like a wasteman. If he doesn't want to marry that's his choice but don't play with peoples emotions like that.
BalmyNites · F
I see him coming a mile off, I have big windows 😊
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yeronlyman · 51-55, M
Sound like he’s got Kavorka
That’ stuff is magic
No wonder he doesn’t want to give it up... 😬

TBH I would probably await judgement until I know his side of the story
SW-User
Hes a douchebag. He’s free to be just as disgusting and free as he wants to be just tell the truth and be honest enough to let women have a choice.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
Sounds like he hasn't matured past teenhood.
purplepen · 51-55, F
I'd call him just another jerk to avoid.
Wiseacre · F
Fear of intimacy!
Since you [b]know[/b] this about him, you know not to get involved with him. Women who know how a man is but somehow think they can [b]change[/b] him end up getting hurt. 😒

 
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