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I Think Good Communication Is Vital To A Good Relationship

I'm thinking that He is being withdrawn because I can't be there til late October.... BUT he's not talking to me for me to know what's up with him. He's giving me one sentence answers, I called and he abruptly wanted to end the call..

I don't see any sense in paying $1,200 for two day visit and a 13 hour flight both ways and customs check..... I can go there in October for a much longer stay...

I'm over trying to be communicative w him.. it's not working

If we can't commit to certain human interactions such as communicating then, I can't anymore. He pulled this crap w me last time.

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SW-User

I've learned not to do that when I get upset. Why? Because time and people are not something you waste. Both those things may not always be there. So in essence there's no reason for sadness to drive anything apart. No excuse. Hopefully, he'll come to his senses. If not, then this will just be another repetitive lesson for him to learn.

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IntoMeYouSee

@SW-User I called andbhebdidnt answer me again... so I sent him a message "I guess there's nothing left to say, take care and goodbye "

I'm taking the unanswered calls as the answer I need
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I'm okay with that.... 🦋

SW-User

@IntoMeYouSee I'm proud of you! It makes me happy to know that you won't have to be miserable anymore about that mess.

*hugs*

IntoMeYouSee

@SW-User 💕

SW-User

Good for you. Make him do the work for a while.

IntoMeYouSee

@SW-User after 3.5 years... I don't think he will, so I'm moving on. I'm stronger for it and I think and feel deeply in my heart that this would not work out in the end.... If he's not taking this serious enough to flip all of this around, then why should I keep waiting.

It's sad.... but.... I'd be crazy to think and hope any longer ....

SW-User

You’re doing the right thing.

IntoMeYouSee

@SW-User thank you. I will keep telling myself this also

DanielChristensen · 46-50, M

Good luck. I hope it works out for you

bijouxbroussard · F

Then you know what’s up. No point in wasting your time or money.

IntoMeYouSee

@bijouxbroussard exactly what I've been thinking

IntoMeYouSee

Lame excuses and I'm stepping...

There will be no desire to travel to Turkey in October.

JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

Where are you flying to?

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IntoMeYouSee

@JaggedLittlePill 🤷🏽‍♀️Thank you for the hope, but We shall see....
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JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

@IntoMeYouSee If it does,let me know as I will then have more hope for my own similar situation ❤

IntoMeYouSee

@JaggedLittlePill we've been at this for a while.... I just wish he would make the effort first. But it's obvious he's not, so why should I.

It's a case of "let's agree to disagree" and move on

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