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I Think Good Communication Is Vital To A Good Relationship

I'm thinking that He is being withdrawn because I can't be there til late October.... BUT he's not talking to me for me to know what's up with him. He's giving me one sentence answers, I called and he abruptly wanted to end the call..

I don't see any sense in paying $1,200 for two day visit and a 13 hour flight both ways and customs check..... I can go there in October for a much longer stay...

I'm over trying to be communicative w him.. it's not working

If we can't commit to certain human interactions such as communicating then, I can't anymore. He pulled this crap w me last time.

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SW-User

I've learned not to do that when I get upset. Why? Because time and people are not something you waste. Both those things may not always be there. So in essence there's no reason for sadness to drive anything apart. No excuse. Hopefully, he'll come to his senses. If not, then this will just be another repetitive lesson for him to learn.

IntoMeYouSee

@SW-User we've come to this crossroad before and yes, it's been a long time that we've been talking, but I'm in no hurry to rush things.

In this story, I'm the one who needs to do all of the traveling and it's not fare.
Though it saddened me, I have let him go before but he came back relentlessly... but I don't think it was for the right reason
if he really meant it this time, he wouldn't shut me out and he'd have a plan to see me immediately instead of putting the pressure on me.

I'm not happy with this wishy-washy, back n forth; it is wasting space and time

Thank you for your reply...

SW-User

@IntoMeYouSee I understand this all too well. Trust your gut and, to me, he didn't come back for the right reasons. I don't want to say that but his behavior speaks for itself.

I'm not gonna tell you how to handle this. That is left up to you to decide. So, I wish you resolve in this situation since it's bothered you enough to want to post about it here. My heart to yours.

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IntoMeYouSee

@SW-User ❤️🦋

IntoMeYouSee

@SW-User I called andbhebdidnt answer me again... so I sent him a message "I guess there's nothing left to say, take care and goodbye "

I'm taking the unanswered calls as the answer I need
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I'm okay with that.... 🦋

SW-User

@IntoMeYouSee I'm proud of you! It makes me happy to know that you won't have to be miserable anymore about that mess.

*hugs*

IntoMeYouSee

@SW-User 💕