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I Think Good Communication Is Vital To A Good Relationship

I'm thinking that He is being withdrawn because I can't be there til late October.... BUT he's not talking to me for me to know what's up with him. He's giving me one sentence answers, I called and he abruptly wanted to end the call..

I don't see any sense in paying $1,200 for two day visit and a 13 hour flight both ways and customs check..... I can go there in October for a much longer stay...

I'm over trying to be communicative w him.. it's not working

If we can't commit to certain human interactions such as communicating then, I can't anymore. He pulled this crap w me last time.

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SW-User

Good for you. Make him do the work for a while.

IntoMeYouSee

@SW-User after 3.5 years... I don't think he will, so I'm moving on. I'm stronger for it and I think and feel deeply in my heart that this would not work out in the end.... If he's not taking this serious enough to flip all of this around, then why should I keep waiting.

It's sad.... but.... I'd be crazy to think and hope any longer ....

SW-User

You’re doing the right thing.

IntoMeYouSee

@SW-User thank you. I will keep telling myself this also