Why does breaks up take so long to get over?

It's a process not an event.

Because they're just disturbing and upsetting. But sometimes it's really not that we're upset about the breakup. We're upset because we thought we had something we didn't. And in that case, you get over it real quick when you realize that.

It's a grief process and everyone handles it differently. I'm sorry you're hurting.

It is mourning. It is mourning the loss of the relationship and even if you were happy/relieved to get out od it the process will take time. It is like a death and that takes at least a year, possibly longer.

It's the mourning process
You've lost something dear you had hopes for and that's normal

Time heals all
Beautiful thing about life is your heart will beat again for something just as special you've yet to have.

Two weeks, you should be out banging yourself silly

Because often they are not a mutual decision

It's literally like mourning 😢

Its pretty fresh and depending on how long u 2 were together, it's gonna take even longer. The important thing is that you're allowing yourself to go through the motions and not dismissing your pain..grieve the loss but try not to allow yourself to go way under ya know? Close friends and family will be especially important during this time.

There were times when I felt like I wouldn't get over them and that I would be heartbroken forever and then... time passes..just like that! You start to heal and it feels less painful eventually. You'll find that you don't cry at the memories as much, that song doesn't overwhelm you anymore, you see them and don't get angry or bitter anymore because you're healing and slowly letting it go...you might find you even learn a thing or 2 about yourself during the process and that's ok! Just as long as you get better.

So...don't beat yourself up too much and even though it's an incredibly cliched statement, TIME really does heal those wounds!

All the best.

It takes time because you care.I hope you feel better soon.

Because our hopes for the future with this person is gone. Very painful..takes time to heal.

Best to get over them before you break 😌

Maybe not in all cases, but I think it depends on how much time you shared with the person.

It's best to stay single, that way people can't hurt you 😔

2 weeks is not very long at all to get over someone

Hahaha under 2 weeks hahha hang in there it will last a lil longer