Why does breaks up take so long to get over?

@LadyGrace Not always

@LadyGrace That's not true, because I've ventured that path too. It doesn't happen so easily regardless.

@SW-User That is true.

@MoonlightLullaby I agree that that is not always the case. It can hurt a very long time.

@MoonlightLullaby No, it does not. I went through that, but one way I found my way out, was telling myself certain truths about the situation. That one particular truth for MYSELF, helped me find my way back. That's not always the case for others. But sometimes it is. It was rough. I had to heal from a narcissist. I really had to do my homework in healing. It took a year and two months. I'm so sorry you're hurting. I hope you feel better soon. Some victims of narcissism, never heal. Never find their way out. ❤️❤️🤗

@LadyGrace I understand that process well, as I did the same thing; finding myself after losing myself, in a sense. I'm no longer hurting over that instance though, because I realized I heavily romanticized a person who was really nothing after all. It felt good to let that one go.🌟

@MoonlightLullaby oh honey I did the same thing and I'm so glad you realized that. But I sure hate it cuz you got hurt. Yes, I had to come with terms that all along, he was emotionally unavailable. Yet he played me on and made me believe he was so in love with me but he wasn't because he was not capable of loving anyone. I'm so happy to hear you're not hurting over him.