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Reigns · 31-35, M
Hey Chewy :( I'm sorry you're in pain. It sucks and I've been there... The best thing to do is just stay away from his life. It's just going to hurt you. Block everything related to him on all accounts; use the anger you have for that because this is the best time to do so. Don't think twice about blocking, just go for it! Close that chapter. End it! It's going to take time but you'll feel better eventually. *hugs* :)
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He’s no longer on my account as friends...I blocked him...I’m in so much pain right now.......@Reigns
Reigns · 31-35, M
@SW-User I understand that you feel really shitty right now but trust me, it will get better. Maybe it's better that you know what kind of person he is. Life is too short to spend it with people like that. You'll find something better in life. You will be alright.
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Thank you...I really appreciate what you are saying....@Reigns

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idk maybe realise you’re stuck in the past
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@Miram I never expected to hear that phrase come from you
It gets better though. Time is what you need most. A lot of people will tell you to get rid of anything associated with the person. And that does work for some people. But for me at least having stuff around that reminded me of them eventually allowed me to become numb to it. Also reach out to people cause when we are alone our brains will ruminate on the negative thoughts and feelings. So try to do hobbies or talk to lots of people. It took me 5 years to fully heal but I did heal.
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Miram · 31-35, F
Be kind to you, you deserve better than getting your heart torn by watching him unaffected. Block him and try not to check on him, it is time you put yourself first.

It is okay to be sad. Don't push your feelings away, they will pass. Just make sure not to give up
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Get rid of facebook for a while. I get how it is. But you're just gonna hurt yourself, so to avoid temptation I would suggest ridding yourself of the platform altogether until you begin to feel better. Especially while the wound is very recent. Heal. Take time to yourself. Figure out how to live without them in your life again.
helenS · 36-40, F
"I was useful when he had no-one

– Yes that's what happens to so many 😐
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He literally had NO family here...then his daughter came back from the USA to have her baby......and now he suddenly is busy!!!@helenS
akindheart · 61-69, F
NEVER look back. I had the same thing happen to me except i was dealing with a narcissist. I made no contact. i blocked and have not looked once. PM me and i willgive you some videos to watch. they will help
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Thank you...@akindheart
romell · 51-55, M
why did u not think of this when breaking up now that its done n dusted move on stop watching what hes doing aNd plan WHAT YOU WANNA DO
romell · 51-55, M
@Miram dumb creepy oh forgot am speaking to the ...United Nations Convention on the Recognition and Enforcement of Foreign Arbitral Awards hahaha
Miram · 31-35, F
@romell

More nonsense. 😴

What's going on? Are you and the other Indian in this post getting wasted together or something?
romell · 51-55, M
@Miram 😁
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Remember that an image is deceiving and that digitally stalking him wont do you any favours.

Block him and move on
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@SW-User woman, listen to yourself. Youd only have to google him? Don't google him, that fairly easy.

A lot of the happiest people are miserable inside.

Either way, theres no benefit to keeping an eye on him. Your relationship has ended, it's time to clean out the bad and look for a different road to travel.
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He used me...as he had no one....now he has, I’m expected to just accept it...@SW-User
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@SW-User Whether he has someone or not, when a relationship ends... yeah, you have to accept it.

He always had his daughter, I presume. Children arent usually created in a month.

Fact is you clearly made a bad choice and you have to accept that. Blaming others and dwelling on it will only cause bitterness and pain.
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M
Close your eyes, inhale/exhale, attain a steady heart rate and try to clear your mind.
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M
@SW-User You know better.
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I have No idea what you are talking about? Know better? In what way do I know better....I am hurting right now.....@YMITheWayIM
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M
@SW-User Oh I am so sorry then.
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What a terrible thing to say....@Coppercoil

 
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