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Rubbing salt in the wound....

I made the mistake of looking at the ex’s Facebook account and now see him playing happy families with his daughter and SIL (back from the USA) having relocated to the UK. I’m feeling sick...he dumped me last month and now I can still see his mug and how happy he is....
I hate him so much...I feel used....
I was useful when he had no-one and now that he does...I’m disposed of...

So unhappy tonight...it’s hurting so much ...advice please, anyone..

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SW-User

idk maybe realise you’re stuck in the past

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Miram · 31-35, F

@SW-User This happened last month. It takes time to move on for normal people who are sincere with their feelings

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It feels so new...the pain...my chest hurts....I feel so sad...@SW-User

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@SW-User 1 months is recent lmao. Like god damn.

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@Miram @SW-User or maybe I don’t sugarcoat stuff like yall

@SW-User if you wanna stay sad for the next 30 days too keep listening to the other miserable people

Miram · 31-35, F

@SW-User

To the other miserable people? You're being a child.

It's perfectly normal for humans to move on in different paces.

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@Miram hope you got a lifeboat on cuz ur swimming in the deep seas of self pity

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@SW-User You've been very bitter lately for whatever reason. I think you're just reflecting whatever it is that is bothering you. I hope it gets better.

Miram · 31-35, F

@SW-User

Can't address the point I made so you try to make me feel bad by suggesting I have a bad life?

😴

SW-User

@SW-User umm no I’ve actually gotten happier in these months, you sound offended, yall actually want a 40 yo woman to cry like a teenager for months over a bf lmao

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@SW-User With that attitude you won't have to worry about crying over anything cause no one would probs want u...so yeah I guess if I was you too I wouldn't understand what thats like😒

canusernamebemyusername · M

@SW-User Wow. This whole tough love lack of empathy thing is really getting old.

SW-User

@canusernamebemyusername I think she doesn't realize that a good majority have the capacity to love someone other than ourselves😫

SW-User

@SW-User and you say I’m the bitter one 🤭

@canusernamebemyusername a 100 mfs can’t tell me nothing, if telling a 40 yo woman not cry for months over someone is tough love please keep ur empathy 👏

SW-User

Your reply is harsh.....and unnecessary...@SW-User

SW-User

@SW-User Nah, I'm not bitter. Just honest that you're an asshat. It's like your mother kicked your ass so hard as a child that you are wearing it as a hat and have no idea how to unstick it.

SW-User

@SW-User ur so affected by an internet response, keep going 🤣 🤡

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@SW-User Not really, I'm on a bunch of drugs. I just like insulting people when I'm allowed to. Its fun.

canusernamebemyusername · M

@SW-User Ever heard of if you can't say anything nice don't say anything?

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@SW-User Plus you kinda left more comments then I did..so I think you're gonna keep going too😏Fucking hot

Miram · 31-35, F

@SW-User She is just a kid and she lives in horrible country. They have no entertainment except going online and pretending to be cool.

canusernamebemyusername · M

@SW-User This is like the 5th person I've seen in the past two days acting like this. Seems like alt accounts of the same person.

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@canusernamebemyusername They used to be okay but lately they been an asshole for some reason. So I just reflect that for them. 😱

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@Miram Which country is that?🤔

canusernamebemyusername · M

@SW-User I hate it when people have something happen in their life and then take out their frustration on everybody else.

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@SW-User @canusernamebemyusername you ppl are on drugs and yet teach others on responsibility over your their life lmao

@Miram aren’t you Arab? this is like throwing stones when you live in a glass house

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