how is being firm being rude?

i get that we are supposed to be nice to employers but when i'm disrespected i'm not gonna take anyones bullshit. i mean honestly, i'm not gonna sit there and be like "okay.." when someone talks down to me. its not what you say its how you say it... and by twisting the story youre being rude.

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Coyotedave611 · M

Having been a manager for many years I heartily agree with you.I would NEVER be condescending or rude to employee's.

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Fernie · F

@Coyotedave611: You are the first person I ever communicated with online maybe 8 years ago. When I see you I feel ALL warm inside!!!

SW-User

@Fernie: sounds kinda dirty. Lol

Fernie · F

@SarcasmQueen: ha! I thought that right after I hit "post comment"

abe182 · 46-50, M

You are being payed to perform a job. They do not own you nor do they have the right to be little you in any way.

Bohemianbrassstrings · F

read my work story. thats the convo i'm talking about. a family member of mine says that i should not have been rude to him. i mean.... if you come at me and twist the story i'm gonna bite back.

abe182 · 46-50, M

@iCrochetstuff: what's the title

AnonymouslyMe · 36-40, F

I agree with you! I speak very firmly to my managers when I feel it's necessary.

Bohemianbrassstrings · F

im not alone!!!

Fernie · F

I finally had it with my boss and calmly told her she was acting like a dictator...her response was..."this isn't a democracy!" followed by an incredulous laugh

Bohemianbrassstrings · F

@Fernie: lmfao!!!

TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 41-45, MVIP

Some ppl are spoilt.. It's a shock to the system the first time they're treated like an adult... 😃🤘

Bohemianbrassstrings · F

its *** spoiled.

SW-User

I suppose it depends on what leg you have to stand on,

Do you find yourself indispensable? Not many people are.. and even those who think or believe that they really ARE, generally aren't.

You need to know that actually you're really in a strong position to do this..

. .. this is why speaking your mind and being honest doesn't always work, unless you're something special with something more to offer than anyone else..

I'm sorry to be blunt, I've seen it all, it is what it is..
This is just a fact.

Eeyore122 · 36-40, F

There are loopholes that allow people to get away with shit. and yet then you are asked why you don't advocate for yourself??!

Fernie · F

GOOD FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!

SW-User

True.

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