So I had to break someone's heart yesterday. I have been taking care of a blind man since May....

DrWatson · 70-79, M

This is so sad to read.

When my mother had a stroke, the revolving door of caregivers who came to the home consisted of a series of detached people who were impersonal in their manner and clearly doing the minimum amount needed.

So when I read your story, in which you really formed a connection with David, and then had to stop because of the agency not paying you, I get really angry. I hope you collect every penny.

Bleed · 41-45, F

It’s so hard letting go but you don’t have a choice. I worked in care and most of the agencies were as bad as the others. I hadn’t had a day off for 18 days so I told them I was taking what should’ve been my day off every week. They called me 15 times! After working Christmas Day morning and running late they tried to add extra calls on me. I’m a single mum and told them I had to get home to cook dinner. They told me I should just get a Chinese!! Even though they charged clients 3x more per hour that day we only got an extra £3 in wages 🤷🏼‍♀🙄They don’t care about their workforce. It was so hard to leave because of how much I cared for certain clients.

onrealityofdreams · M

This is upsetting to read on two levels. The first being the agency is running afoul of the law and should be held accountable. The second being that guy is losing his angel, though as you said you're losing your favorite.
Please keep in mind it's not selfish for you to look out for yourself. If you don't you can't take care of anyone.

Ghostinthemachine · M

You went above and beyond already. The agency took advantage of your empathy and kind nature.
And now because of them, two people are in a sad situation, making difficult decisions that shouldn’t be theirs to make.
You did well

bowman81 · M

You can't help others if you don't take care of yourself. That isn't being selfish, it is recognizing reality.

MsSwan

That's messed up. I'm sorry for you and the blind man. 😞

Degbeme · 70-79, M

That agency doesn`t care about the patient or the caregiver. It`s all about the bottom line, money. I wonder how many others they haven`t paid?

WillaKissing · 56-60, M

Bless your heart and Davids. I hope you get reimbursed as well.

TexChik · F

Report the agency for non-payment of wages to your state’s employment commission. Have all your data ready make your case. They usually act quickly.

Also report them to the state agency that controls their license.