I hate how my job affects my life

@PrincessRoarBuddy I actually really wanted this job. And I've talk to my coworkers about this issue and asked for their opinion, all of them said the same thing: they do not think she is good at being a manager but all the complaints given to the higher ups go to deaf ears, apparently they do not give a fuck how we're doing which is why I've started to look for a new job.

And thank you, I'm sure I'll find a better job, it just takes a little bit time and effort.

@plungesponge sounds frustrating, good luck with them

@Jimmy2016 sounds exhausting! Good luck, I hope you'll find a better job too✨️🤞

@Jimmy2016 You need to leave and find a better job.

@Olderguy Well it sounds like her boss tells her what she does wrong on everything because her boss is a micro manager and only her boss knows how do do it right.

@Olderguy yea like Jimmy said it's about micromanagement.. plus some people are manipulative if ur employee is already effective then u need to control them all the time, give them free space n mind to work.. some times letting go helps more than trying to educate.. but that's to be judged from person to person, no one likes to be controlled

@Olderguy Does this sound like constructive criticism or something a good manager would do: For the first few months she kept telling me that I'm doing great. But now apparently I don't smile or say hi to our customers anymore which I can assure you is NOT true but at first I tried to hear her side of the story and do better; smile even wider and make sure that every single customer was treated well on my watch. But no. Nothing I've done so far has been good enough. And things that my co-workers have done wrong or in a way she doesn't agree on are suddenly all my fault because apparently I should be the one telling my co-workers, who by the way have been working there for YEARS that they shouldn't do things the way they've done them for all these years. Others have told me that our manager is quite new and doesn't really get along with anyone who dares to disagree with her. I think the fact that I am getting along with the others is pissing her off even more and now she is putting all her frustration on me because I'm new and don't have guts to talk back.

@MessedUpBird He's too stupid to comprehend dear. Like he really is slow. 🙂

@smileylovesgaming I probably should. But I'm still on a trial period so I'm afraid that she will fire me for telling her my honest thoughts and I can't afford to lose my job.