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Why is she treating that kid like that?

I am doing an internship in a kindergarten, we are 4 interns including me. One of the girls acts much more interested, hugging and kissing one of the children in her class. She always sits next to him and looks at him while he eats in the hallway. I wanted to help that child while doing an activity, but she shouted at me. I heard her crying because that child didn't come to school yesterday. I noticed the other day that she took one of his pens. Why might she be doing this?

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Matt85 · 36-40, M

Hugging and kissing a kid? Does the kid appreciate that?

Neptun · 18-21, F

@Matt85 he does

Matt85 · 36-40, M

@Neptun It's still wrong really, even if she's hot.

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

I know of some that get emotionally attached to some kids. Not necessarily in a bad way, even if it seems inappropriate.

There is that possibility.

My sister-in-law once took in such a kid that was very much autistic. There really wasn't anything wrong going on. Being autistic sometimes requires a touch approach. That's the only way they respond to anything.

Perhaps this is such a case.

I do remember in junior high one teacher sort of taking an interest in me, however there really wasn't the same type of attachments, as with my sister-in-law. Yes, he bought me some things, yet only through my parents. In fact my parents were the ones that actually bought the stuff.

Don't jump to conclusions is all I am saying. It could be something benign.

Yet do keep a eye on the situation. There is that possiblity of something not right. Therefore something needs to be done in that case.

Perhaps have the school contact the parents, to see if they have any type of knowledge of that situation. Don't do it yourself, however. That could directly involve you.

Please notice that I gave two different situations. They are not the only situations.

Better to be certain, than in doubt and cause false accusations. Once such accusations are made, you can't just say "oh, I am sorry. I was wrong". The parents might even blame you. Perhaps for being jealous of the other teachers relationship with both kid and parents.

That, as well, is just one possibility.

Iwantyourhotwife · 22-25

Is everything back to normal?
How is Belina?
Is it you? Or not quite?

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Iwantyourhotwife · 22-25

@HannahSky I'm not crazy to remember that she was hospitalized, right? Did she return?

HannahSky · F

@Iwantyourhotwife I'm not sure. It's vaguely familiar right now.

Neptun · 18-21, F

@Iwantyourhotwife No, Belinay still hasn't recovered. But you could have asked this in a private message instead of asking here!!!!

DarlingSelah ·

At best she just an emotionally disturbed weirdo. Maybe you should report her.

InHeaven · F

Thats not good....

Neptun · 18-21, F

@InHeaven why

InHeaven · F

...she is in love...with someone elses little child 🤔🤔🤔@Neptun thats not good

SW-User

Is he a special needs child? I also thought maybe she knows something about his personal life which makes her feel particularly protective of him, but it's really bizarre that she cried because he didn't come to kindergarten unless it was because he'd gotten injured or something..

HannahSky · F

Ask her if she knows the kid

Neptun · 18-21, F

@HannahSky she doesn't

Monalisaa1986 · 36-40, F

Maybe he’s her son

Neptun · 18-21, F

@Monalisaa1986 he isn't

Monalisaa1986 · 36-40, F

@Neptun how do you know none knows anything

SStarfish ·

@Neptun not officially but if he was adopted he could be.. (like if he was her son that got adopted.. and she found him).. but who knows.. 😬😳

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