
SW-User
Yep. It starts out in the small things first. The ego and competing is ever present
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@SW-User They never see it coming but SW can technically create a third world war. 😂
Dshhh · M
like 13 year old boys...
that never grow up
that never grow up
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Dshhh · M
@Queendragonfly
since our very first interaction, you have seemed... confrontational. and yes you have made assumptions that are inaccurate
I am happy to answer any of your questions, it does not make me nervous when the mic is pointed I am even likely to give my motivations
i got no illusions about being a "good Man" I do indeed sleep around, it is my pleasure to do so with those enthusiastic about it.
i do not have men "open up to me" at work, I am not often behind he bar.. and ther "trassh talk" you seem to perceive is not about any one person at all, it is a recognition of societal values that i may or may not share.
if ou WANT confrontational lets pick a more exciting topic
since our very first interaction, you have seemed... confrontational. and yes you have made assumptions that are inaccurate
I am happy to answer any of your questions, it does not make me nervous when the mic is pointed I am even likely to give my motivations
i got no illusions about being a "good Man" I do indeed sleep around, it is my pleasure to do so with those enthusiastic about it.
i do not have men "open up to me" at work, I am not often behind he bar.. and ther "trassh talk" you seem to perceive is not about any one person at all, it is a recognition of societal values that i may or may not share.
if ou WANT confrontational lets pick a more exciting topic
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@Dshhh Then say what you mean. If you are against certain values, then say that. When you say all men in your bar, you're making very large assumptions and I don't appreciate such an attitude.
Dshhh · M
@Queendragonfly genralitys and assumptions... here consider who i watch
well the demographics are quite varied, the most homogeneous population is at the college bars, as you might imagine, 21 and up, not many older than early 30's and filter that by the fact is IS a college dominated crowd, dance floor, meet up kinda space.. so it is not like there is a lot of diversity there..
the other place skews much older, a Jazz club, kinda dress code look, and a mature crowd. filter for the music, and you might get the idea of who is there.
i think i DID express my discomfort with some values,
but I'll be more direct
the Irony for me is how you have seemed to embrace that your self? making this a taking sides issue when i was actually in agreement with you to restate that agreement:
The us vs them attitude on social media is not unlike the squabbling of kids on a playground. and as many grown ups cling to this immature wrangling , it indeed is no wonder wars break out.
well the demographics are quite varied, the most homogeneous population is at the college bars, as you might imagine, 21 and up, not many older than early 30's and filter that by the fact is IS a college dominated crowd, dance floor, meet up kinda space.. so it is not like there is a lot of diversity there..
the other place skews much older, a Jazz club, kinda dress code look, and a mature crowd. filter for the music, and you might get the idea of who is there.
i think i DID express my discomfort with some values,
but I'll be more direct
People be making "us" VS "them" on a social online platform while wondering why wars exist
my responce waslike 13 year old boys...that never grow up
that being a general discomfort for , as you suggest social media has been encourgin this us vs them perspective.. much as is done by boys in the school yard. marking the point that more and more people are acting like that, instead of a more considered approach to discoursethe Irony for me is how you have seemed to embrace that your self? making this a taking sides issue when i was actually in agreement with you to restate that agreement:
The us vs them attitude on social media is not unlike the squabbling of kids on a playground. and as many grown ups cling to this immature wrangling , it indeed is no wonder wars break out.
HeidiA · 41-45, F
You jumped from social media to war there. A bit dramatic maybe?
HeidiA · 41-45, F
@Queendragonfly yep.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@HeidiA This was posted under sarcasm by the way. 😉
@Queendragonfly it looks about the same as yours and dhsss’s comments.
Zeroyasha · 26-30, M
You can't even have a normal conversation without someone starting something nowadays, it's very frustating.