I've lost so much weight, women are starting to be nice to me

Feels weird, man. I've been invisible for so long, it's becoming quite clear I'm not comfortable with positive attention. I've always kinda lived in my own little world and no one ever noticed or cared.

Maybe I could get used to this, but it's going to take a while.

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RebelFox · 36-40, F

I weighed almost 300lbs and lost half of it. I enjoyed the attention at first, but then I just realized how shallow it all was and I still mostly hide.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@RebelFox That is mega-impressive. It looks like you have always been the way you are.

TinyViolins · 31-35, M

@RebelFox Wowzers! That's quite a journey. It's actually kinda inspiring me to keep going since there's still a little more I want to lose.

But you're right, it's all shallow and people rarely ever get to see the real you. I definitely don't plan on going out looking for attention, but in my experience, some is usually better than none.

I guess it would just be nice to be desired. The last time I got any attention from women, I squandered it by being awkward and anxious. Hoping I can keep a cooler head this time around

RebelFox · 36-40, F

@TinyViolins Well, you’re an amazing person, so enjoy it. You deserve some extra attention.