I've lost so much weight, women are starting to be nice to me

Feels weird, man. I've been invisible for so long, it's becoming quite clear I'm not comfortable with positive attention. I've always kinda lived in my own little world and no one ever noticed or cared.

Maybe I could get used to this, but it's going to take a while.

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RebelFox · 36-40, F

I weighed almost 300lbs and lost half of it. I enjoyed the attention at first, but then I just realized how shallow it all was and I still mostly hide.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@RebelFox That is mega-impressive. It looks like you have always been the way you are.

TinyViolins · 31-35, M

@RebelFox Wowzers! That's quite a journey. It's actually kinda inspiring me to keep going since there's still a little more I want to lose.

But you're right, it's all shallow and people rarely ever get to see the real you. I definitely don't plan on going out looking for attention, but in my experience, some is usually better than none.

I guess it would just be nice to be desired. The last time I got any attention from women, I squandered it by being awkward and anxious. Hoping I can keep a cooler head this time around

RebelFox · 36-40, F

@TinyViolins Well, you’re an amazing person, so enjoy it. You deserve some extra attention.

FutureIdol · 31-35, M

I know the feeling once i got my first round of plastic surgery and got super thin i gained a lot of heads turning.

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FutureIdol · 31-35, M

@TinyViolins maybe, im in the midwest so that might be part of the issue. I may or may not have lied about my age to them. I used to say i was 20/21. If they knew i was a decade older i doubt i would have been chosen

TinyViolins · 31-35, M

@FutureIdol Oof, yeah. You might only be able to ride that lie for a little while longer before the tell-tale signs of aging show up. Might have to hang up the saddle at some point

FutureIdol · 31-35, M

@TinyViolins luckily asians age slower but still you can tell now im not 21 anymore

vic7ory

Always stay humble

AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M

You will eventually not only get used to it but you will love it. The new you as well as the attention .

asmalltoken

People can be shallow. Their true colours will come through eventually, just be yourself and enjoy your healthy new life.

Iwillwait · M

That's awesome.

MoonaNorth86 · 36-40, F

I’ve lost 7 kilograms I don’t know what that is in pounds

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MoonaNorth86 · 36-40, F

I thought so @AthrillatheHunt

AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M

@MoonaNorth86 1 x 2.2 (I lived in metric countries so I know the Celsius stuff too).

MoonaNorth86 · 36-40, F

I knew it was double of 7 but I wasn’t sure if I had to add or divide @AthrillatheHunt

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