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Whenever Joel and I are out in public we always try to be respectful. I get that not everybody is okay with our way of life. And we try to keep the PDA to a minimum if any at all. It's just easier that way sometimes. But we were out getting lunch and...

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Finchy · 41-45, M

How awful. If I’m out with a man sitting close and innocent touching is expected and I’ve never heard any complaints luckily

Cigarguy · 41-45, M

@Finchy yeah like I said we always try to be respectful in public. But some people are just like that nothing that can be done

Finchy · 41-45, M

@Cigarguy I’m glad you stood up for yourselves like that and it’s too bad the manager wasn’t there. Hopefully that person would have had a problem with the waiter too

Barefooter25 · 46-50, M

I would definitely contact the manager and file a complaint. Just tell them that you and Joel have medical issues and you were trying to treat him the best way that you knew. I don't know if those places are listed on Yelp or Google review. But leaving a review for that place goes a long way.

Cigarguy · 41-45, M

@Barefooter25 I has just holding his hand to message it but still. If I straight couple did that I'm sure nothing would of been said. Oh well.

4meAndyou · F

Call the restaurant, and get the address of the restaurant where the waiter was so horribly rude, and ask for the name of the manager. Do not tell the person at the other end of the phone why you need that information.

THEN you can write the manager a letter, and you can actually TELL him that Joel has arthritis in his hand, and that you were trying to help him when that horrible waiter misconstrued your actions. Tell the manager you were so offended you had to leave...and that HE lost business because the waiter is so deeply biased.

I think that should do the trick.

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Cigarguy · 41-45, M

@4meAndyou yeah there weren't very busy for a Saturday afternoon

4meAndyou · F

@Cigarguy Call Gordon Ramsey and tell him they are going out of business and they need help....🤣🤣🤣

Shybutwilling2bfriends · 61-69

Thats horrible you were treated that way. Im glad you found a better place to eat with better service

Cigarguy · 41-45, M

@Shybutwilling2bfriends yes this place was so much better

Mordechai · 31-35, M

It's so disappointing to hear that some people, probably far too many, still treat others this way.

Cigarguy · 41-45, M

@Mordechai yeah it is. And like I said all I was doing was rubbing the palm of his hand.

Amyrakunejo · F

Filing a complaint, or even, filing criminal charges, may get them to stop.
(you'd have every right to do both in this case-this is harassment and that is a Misdemeanor 2 minimum)

Cigarguy · 41-45, M

@Amyrakunejo all we wanted to do was eat lunch and I was just trying to help him with the pain in his hand

Amyrakunejo · F

@Cigarguy I know; if I had been there, I would said to back off.

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Cigarguy · 41-45, M

@HootyTheNightOwl Joel let his feelings be known as we left, we both did. Not that it will do any good.

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