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Have u ever been dumped before in a relationship ? 💫🤔💫

Like did he or she dump you. Do you know why. Sometimes we are dumped by people we love. Or ghosted even. How many of you have been dumped by your boy or girlfriend before. I'm listening. Hello SW.

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StarLily · 51-55, F Best Comment
Once. No previous ex partner had my heart like he did... and he ghosted me. Interesting.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@Unefilletrescurieuse Ok you worthless hag. 😂
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Zonuss · 46-50, M
@Unefilletrescurieuse What do you mean. You're a hag. Period. 🙂

PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
There was only once that I did the dumping. All the other times it was them dumping me. And the winner that would dump me every Friday so he could have a clear conscious to do as he pleased on the weekend. After the sixth time I finally learned to say no. I was 16 at the time.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@PerfectionOfTheHeart The things we do in our youth. Glad you're ok.
FlowersInHerHair · 56-60, F
Yes. I never dumped anyone…I suppose they always beat me to it.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@FlowersInHerHair Well you're still shining my friend. 🙂
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
One ex and I broke up and got back together a few times. Sometimes he’d break up with me; other times, I’d break up with him. We were young and both liked our freedom but also loved each other. We were rarely broken up for long; we just took breaks a few times. 😄

In my other relationships, I was the one to end them.

I was ghosted by someone I met on EP. He and I became very close friends, but I wanted more than he could give. One day, he just disappeared on me, and my heart shattered. Almost three years later, he messaged me here. We worked through things and are friends again, but there’s a distance between us now. We’re not as close as we used to be, and I think we need that distance. It’s good, and I’m glad we’re friends again. He makes me smile and laugh, and we just get each other. Friendships like that are rare.
Kumbayakid · 61-69, M
@ChampagneOnIce closeness is both thrilling and heart-breaking, sometimes at the same time
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@ChampagneOnIce same thing has happened to me. Wouldn’t it be something if it were the same man.
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
@Kumbayakid It certainly can be.
@iamonfire696 I really hope it’s not. I doubt it is.
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
Kinda yes but looking back I’m glad it happened. I was in the psy hospital at the time and he broke up with me over the phone and kinda lost it for a few days but then quickly learned that it was good that we were no longer together. It was a bad relationship from the start.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@ImRileyTheDog Ouch. Glad you survived that one. 🙂
Elessar · 31-35, M
Replaced more than just dumped
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@Elessar Were you cheated on ? 🤔
Elessar · 31-35, M
@Zonuss Not really, just realized I was someone's plan B or something like that.
SW-User
Only once. His loss.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@SW-User Wow.😐
SW-User
@Zonuss not my fault
Sunnykel76 · 46-50, F
I've had it both ways neither feel good.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Yes and Yes.
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Zonuss · 46-50, M
@SW-User Dang. Sounds like a soap opera. Glad you are better now. 🙂
SW-User
@Zonuss ikr! And yes, things are great now :)
SW-User
When I was younger, yes, they came back after time but I said no thanks. ☺️
Flowerz · 36-40, F
A few times. I've been in lots of relationships however.
meggie · F
Once I was very surprised to get a phone call from a boyfriend saying he was going back to his wife who I didn't even know about. Then quite a few years later he contacted me to see if we could pick up where we left off.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@meggie Strange. 🙂
Alison · 22-25, F
Yeah they always came back tho and then I usually got mean.
I never panic much. Like rn I'm the deepest I've been in love for like 10 months. Still could just walk.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@Alison Did he come back. 🙂
Alison · 22-25, F
@Zonuss they all come back in the end.
I'm pretty lovable.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@Alison 🙂
ButterRobot · 51-55, M
It was totally mutual
SW-User
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@Echambers101 I think you better chill. Or Mr Z empire will crush you. I'm not playing around. 🙂
Echambers101 · 26-30, M
@Zonuss nah I'm good
@Zonuss Don’t make me tell your probation officer you’re out here threatening people 😅😅
i have been on both ends. 😊
@deathfairy No I'm not speaking about myself.. and I'm not bitter about anything and I'm talking about when you find the one that cares don't distant him or her let it go as far as it can as he or she has to earn your trust... I think you have been taking what I said the wrong way because it has nothing to do with me . What ever you build, I'm sure it will be great....
well if that’s the case, then my mistake for misunderstanding you.. @masterofyou
@deathfairy not a problem
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Not really,but I had to leave a couple for sanity reasons.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@Zonuss I forgot my first boyfriend did break up with me but that was a long time ago and as you see it didn't hurt me too much... I don't think I need to go into details about my personal life especially here... I can say one was a narcissist
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@Justmeraeagain Wasnt asking you to be personal. Only specific. Thank you. 🙂
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@Zonuss 👌
We all go though that and move on....
No, I have done the initiating..
Hgingat · 22-25, F
No he wouldn’t dare! 😆
he would, and he will. they always do. or maybe you will. (: either way, it’s okay. @Hgingat
Egg01 · 56-60, F
A few times. It was not great but shit happens 🤣
pratluck · 41-45, M
@Egg01 I am loyal
Egg01 · 56-60, F
@pratluck So is my long term partner
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@SpaceJesus Ja Rule. 🙂
Atlotto · M
Yes. All wanted to come back, tho.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@Atlotto They always do. 🙂
Atlotto · M
@Zonuss Lol.. The grass wasn't so green.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@Atlotto 🙂
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DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
@ChemDawg what the hell
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@DeluxedEdition Deluxe. 🤔

 
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