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Have u ever been dumped before in a relationship ? 💫🤔💫

Like did he or she dump you. Do you know why. Sometimes we are dumped by people we love. Or ghosted even. How many of you have been dumped by your boy or girlfriend before. I'm listening. Hello SW.

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i have been on both ends. 😊
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@deathfairy They did you wrong. 🙂
🙃 how, they helped me. @Zonuss
@deathfairy Maybe you didn't pay attention enough to the problem to keep the relationship you had...
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@deathfairy It made you stronger. Better. Wiser. 🙂
why do i have to hold onto something so hard that it hurts both of us? there is a time when you have to step back let what needs to happen. nothing stays the same forever. why do people expect relationships to last forever? @masterofyou
@deathfairy Then find one that doesn't hurt. I did and it has lasted 46 years. Real relationships do last forever and beyond...
your original words to paying attention to what is the real problem in the relationship. that is a learned skill, it takes practice, its important, and yes, i have missed things that are clearer now.

well, i am very happy you have had an opportunity to do that. that is my point, i am 28, you are 70+. i need to dump and be dumped along the way before i find another to share as many years as we both want with each other. @masterofyou
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@deathfairy Well said.
@deathfairy You do need to dump the ones that belong in the dumpster but don't be dumpted you do the dumping you pick the right one but don't be distant to the one that cares...
you seem to be missing my point in relations being an ebb and flow. they start they end. we reach, we let go.

the one that cares,,, are you speaking about yourself now? i appreciate the very short time we got to talk privately, even you have helped me on a path to self discovery of my personal relationship with myself. for that, i would like to thank you.. so that makes sense why you sound almost bitter. i have been distant because i am following my intuition and focusing on myself. creating that doll house you too readily had. i want to see what mine will look like that will be built by my own littles hands. @masterofyou
@deathfairy No I'm not speaking about myself.. and I'm not bitter about anything and I'm talking about when you find the one that cares don't distant him or her let it go as far as it can as he or she has to earn your trust... I think you have been taking what I said the wrong way because it has nothing to do with me . What ever you build, I'm sure it will be great....
well if that’s the case, then my mistake for misunderstanding you.. @masterofyou
@deathfairy not a problem