I keep seeing chubby women complain about men not liking their looks online. They should be happy they are not attracting lame guys that are dumb and

Just look for looks right?

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CestManan · 46-50, F

I keep seeing broke beta men complain about women not being interested.

Look it is like this - the harsh reason that men don't want to date fat women is because of this -
Men do NOT want to be embarrassed about what they are dating.
Women will date some grotesque loser criminal and walk around proudly with him No matter how much backlash she gets.
Men do not put up with such a situation.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@CestManan hmm.. that's sad some would base or give up possibly an amazing connection, on what others MAY THINK. 😨😒

CestManan · 46-50, F

@Coralmist In the romance or even friendship scene, there are just certain things men don't deal with and things women don't deal with.

The reason men care what others think - we know that women have the final say when it comes to sex or dating. A woman can find either one relatively easy. Men have to work for it. If a man is seen dating a woman who is, ummm, sub-par, it ruins his future chances for dating decent women.
A woman though can sleep with or date criminals and assholes but still have a perfect chance at dating good men.

That is why men worry what others will think.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@CestManan A new woman that a man night be interested in, wouldn't know what his previous ex looked like..(to know if she was a knockout or not). So really if two people did click it doesn't matter who he was or wasn't with in the past. 🌺

CestManan · 46-50, F

@Coralmist That is true as long as the man is not trying to date within the same circle of acquaintances, like say in college or a workplace.