How do you know when someone really cares about you?

first , on Cheryl's question,, if someone really cares about someone they develop a sense for that person of what is good and what is bad, they will then do all they can to help and support that person even if they say they dont want or need the help. second . regarding Trump , i am an Independent voter that originally said i would give him a shot to see what he would do for the American people (all of them), i soon realized he still thought he was on a reality show. he denied there was any collusion with Russia , when we all know that all forms of negative post turned up just before critical voting which would turn the undecided voters away from Clinton. he may not have "colluded" but he did say on public television that he would gladly take any help that Russia could come up with. since then he he has run his mouth so much he has been an embarrassment as a so called leader. green acres was very fitting, the bill that was passed that was supposed to help our farmers is only helping the large multi million dollar corp. farms that have skilled lawyers so that even 2nd cousins that have no affiliation to the actual farm except for their name being on the corporate papers allows each of them to apply for the 250,000.00 dollar aid just so long as they are on the corporate papers. the smaller family farms where the whole family is busting their ass to keep their farm from going under do not have those high priced lawyers so almost 90 % of those poor folks are still waiting for help. this can be verified by watching the 5/3/20 episode of 60 minutes. and all the financial help hes giving the citizens might not have been necessary if he had got off his ass in january and started prevetion measures. instead he said it was nothing and under control, just so he could try to keep the stock market from dropping. he has yet to learn that his lies and stupid comments always catch up to his. but then he never does anything wrong, he makes sure he has a yes person to take the fall. god forbid if a lackey disagrees with him or contradicts him,, they are fired and replaced with a better yes person. oh, and dont believe he was distracted by the "impeachment" proceedings back then . he knew from the start that he owned the Senate and Mitch McConnell even said before it started that he wanted everything sent to the Senate ASAP so the Senate he controlled (another Trump lackey)could immediately acquit him. acquit does not mean you are innocent,,it means the evidence is to be ignored or not allowed enough to make the case prosecutable .realize also the House knew when it started the process that the impeachment was never going to happen , the reason the proceeded was only to get as much of the information the republicans wanted kept hidden out to as many regular Americans as possible. Trump is so scary and underhanded i refuse to refer to him as President,, i do freely refer to him in a more fitting title. "the Don Gotti of Capitol Hill" or "the other teflon Don". now thats what ive seen so far and my decision is clear. everyone else that is middle of the road will make up their own minds. the devout Trump followers that prefer to stay blind to any negative facts will still have their nose up his ass and their lips puckered. now as a famous broadcaster always said " and thats the way it is"

They show you they care. I know that sounds pretty self explanatory but they care if you get home safe, they make a future with you and set time to spend time with you

They clear away everyone with military force so you can walk to a church, hold up a bible, take a selfie, and call it a day.

They are there through the bad times, too

They don’t run away when things get tough.

They’ll text you in the morning with I hope you have a great day

When they smile at you. Not some phony smile. But a genuine, spontaneous smile.

You’ll know. They are very caring and attentive and make you feel like you’re a priority.

when the person is there for you when you need him most.

When they do for you. I have always preferred action to words.

They sing to you.

They're with you during the rough patches.

They are there for the good and bad

Unconditional love

You’ll know ... I promise

They show it by being there for you through good and bad, are supportive and giving. Openly caring and not only talk to you, but with you. Listening to what you have to say. Sharing with you things they wouldn't share with anyone else. That's how I see it.

They give you their time

They buy you Starbucks

They are intrigued by you and they continue to intrigue you by being warm, clever, inspired and involved.

If that doesn't let you know ... then, it is when they take you for ice cream ... and order it for you

I get cookies

They overlook all the little things that others point out to you as things you should change.. They love you for who and what you are and how you look.. Not something they want to mold you into..

Most of the time you just kind of know..

They're kind in a way that can't be described by mortal tongues..

They will give you the first potato chip out of the bag. (thats the best one !)

On good days.. lately it's been hard.. really hard.. and it scares me.

[c=#4C0073]easy .. tell them you need a million dollars .. see what happens next[/c]

What they do for you , try to resolve YOUR problems.

They don't just talk about themselves.

It’s getting more and more difficult to tell for me

They will usually tell you that they care about you.

They come back

That [i]gut feeling[/i]

Most posters have covered it...people who care about you are there when you [b]need[/b] them, and not just when things are fun and happy...