How do you know when someone really cares about you?

first , on Cheryl's question,, if someone really cares about someone they develop a sense for that person of what is good and what is bad, they will then do all they can to help and support that person even if they say they dont want or need the help. second . regarding Trump , i am an Independent voter that originally said i would give him a shot to see what he would do for the American people (all of them), i soon realized he still thought he was on a reality show. he denied there was any collusion with Russia , when we all know that all forms of negative post turned up just before critical voting which would turn the undecided voters away from Clinton. he may not have "colluded" but he did say on public television that he would gladly take any help that Russia could come up with. since then he he has run his mouth so much he has been an embarrassment as a so called leader. green acres was very fitting, the bill that was passed that was supposed to help our farmers is only helping the large multi million dollar corp. farms that have skilled lawyers so that even 2nd cousins that have no affiliation to the actual farm except for their name being on the corporate papers allows each of them to apply for the 250,000.00 dollar aid just so long as they are on the corporate papers. the smaller family farms where the whole family is busting their ass to keep their farm from going under do not have those high priced lawyers so almost 90 % of those poor folks are still waiting for help. this can be verified by watching the 5/3/20 episode of 60 minutes. and all the financial help hes giving the citizens might not have been necessary if he had got off his ass in january and started prevetion measures. instead he said it was nothing and under control, just so he could try to keep the stock market from dropping. he has yet to learn that his lies and stupid comments always catch up to his. but then he never does anything wrong, he makes sure he has a yes person to take the fall. god forbid if a lackey disagrees with him or contradicts him,, they are fired and replaced with a better yes person. oh, and dont believe he was distracted by the "impeachment" proceedings back then . he knew from the start that he owned the Senate and Mitch McConnell even said before it started that he wanted everything sent to the Senate ASAP so the Senate he controlled (another Trump lackey)could immediately acquit him. acquit does not mean you are innocent,,it means the evidence is to be ignored or not allowed enough to make the case prosecutable .realize also the House knew when it started the process that the impeachment was never going to happen , the reason the proceeded was only to get as much of the information the republicans wanted kept hidden out to as many regular Americans as possible. Trump is so scary and underhanded i refuse to refer to him as President,, i do freely refer to him in a more fitting title. "the Don Gotti of Capitol Hill" or "the other teflon Don". now thats what ive seen so far and my decision is clear. everyone else that is middle of the road will make up their own minds. the devout Trump followers that prefer to stay blind to any negative facts will still have their nose up his ass and their lips puckered. now as a famous broadcaster always said " and thats the way it is"