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Dallasdoll307 · 36-40, T
sometimes what they view as pretty might not be pretty to others

Dusty101 · F
Perhaps they see the prettiness.
Everyone has a pretty and handsome feature.
Apart from an ugly mind. 😊
Dusty101 · F
@SW-User they do!
SW-User
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
Like a Shallow Hal kind of thing.@Dusty101
They see the good in them. And they want them to feel good about themselves. 😊 I know this is true about my lover.
@Oster1 thank you. I am glad you feel so.... coincidentally the feeling is mutual, my friend. 😇🤗
Oster1 · M
@Vivaci 🤗😇😘
Oster1 · M
@Vivaci Yes, your very charming words, feel so good and lovely!🤗Thank you!
Some flirts.... some try to be kind and some try their chances...
@questionWeaver

I know.... you are the wise gentleman with the loveliest compliments to ladies.... well done QW... 🤗❤️❤️

And those cute rabbits are adorable...
@SW-User

I know, right?? Lol

Good to see you my friend....
SW-User
Hello gorgeous 😉. Ditto ..@Soossie
SW-User
Beauty is subjective.
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
Not true, I look for something to compliment. Every female has their own special thing about them that deserves a compliment .
Everyone likes a compliment, men too
BlueVeins · 22-25
Most people do that to everyone, just to be polite and sound sweet.
traceavery · 70-79, M
Personally, I love all people as human beings, There is beauty to a person other than facial features and that's the beauty I look for.
Viper · M
Men are just copying women who complimenting each other on random stuff.

Like, oh I love that sweater! Pants, heels, etc.. even if the sweater, pants or whatever are ugly, they still use lines like that.

Men do the same thing, just if we talk about about liking your cloths or heels it's considered shallow unless the guy can pull it off well, so they go with something else.
Oster1 · M
@Viper If one can handle it well, it is the ultimate conversation starter. “Is that a new hair style? It is very becoming on you”, for an example. “You look so lovely in purple”. One has to believe the complement, to really be effective. Using eye contact, a smile and a little confidence, goes a long way. I work on this every day of my life. All day, no matter what environment, I’m in. I’ve had ladies swoon by telling them, how lovely, their hands were. To be charming, is becoming a lost art. One must practice, every day to be proficient and believable!😊
Viper · M
@Oster1 I very much agree!

At the same time, I think it can be quite awkward if she's feels uncomfortable, especially if you go for the heels, pants or tight top lol, which ladies can get away with easily bit guys can't.
Oster1 · M
@Viper Absolutely, the perv and creepy stuff, never works! Always look in the eyes, that’s all that matters! Some poor guys, just have never been taught the kindler, gentler ways, are best!😊
SW-User
No they don't always do that
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M
Not this man.
SW-User
As a man, wont dont you tell us?
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
@SW-User well girl, go get some
SW-User
@ronisme1 I'll wait until the morning. It's too late now
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
@SW-User never to late for a coffee. Treat yourself to a muffin with it
Believe it or not, there are nice guys out here, and not all are hung up on physical appearance.
Viper · M
Because men can't win...

If men compliment, then people ask why and question like this, if they point out the negatives, then people attack them for shaming others. Which is the better option? I think most agree, being more positive is better than being more negative.

Also just because you don't find someone as pretty, doesn't matter that someone else might not find them very pretty.

Trying to help others with the kindness as well.
Many women are not aware of what is eye catching to men

Some men pattern match to model photos ... so a lot of effort goes into selling those clothes

But ... us guys are an odd lot ... and what catches our eye ... and that which intrigues us can be a bit unpredictable

Can assure you that 39 out of 40 men will find you captivating, alluring and irresistable!

The 40th can not say that or his girlfriend will hurt him.
Queeen · 26-30, F
@questionWeaver thank you❤😘
perceptivei · 36-40, F
I didn't realize this was a thing. Oh! Cos they want some booty!
4meAndyou · F
Because they can always put a paper bag over their heads? 😂 JK. Maybe not all men do that, because I haven't noticed many of them doing that with women who are not at least marginally pretty.
4meAndyou · F
@Oster1 And that is why you are [i]mesmerizing!!![/i] 😂 I know I haven't spent much time with men who are kind. 😟 But I do remember the behavior of many of them in my singles group, when I belonged to that, and they wouldn't even speak to a female if she wasn't an awesome cook or good looking.
Oster1 · M
@4meAndyou Ahhhhh, see, you just made my day!!! That was just excellent and very kind of you! Also, remember that I’m a product of the South, born and raised. I was in business, all of my life. My Father was the best and I learned everything from him. Sometimes, there is no better gift, than a very kind word. Today, more than any time in history, one is a stand out, like never before. Just something to think about. Thanks Dad!🤗😘
Oster1 · M
@4meAndyou Yes, their loss and lack of true class and high culture!😊
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
To not hurt their feelings? Or maybe they need something from them.

Unnecessary flattery always comes from an ulterior motive.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@Oster1 I agree it's not always the case.

But I guess it could be most of the time. There are genuine men out there and I'm not gonna paint the same picture for everyone.
Oster1 · M
@Beatbox34 You are a good and fine man. Thank you, sir!😊
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@Oster1 You too are. Thank you sir ☺️.
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
Because compliments are free. The person giving the compliment experiences a small bit of dopamine after giving the compliment. Giving compliments feels good.
ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M
[quote]The person giving the compliment experiences a small bit of dopamine after giving the compliment[/quote]

I suspect nitric oxide has a role to play too:-

[quote][b]Nitric oxide triggers the action of guanylate cyclase, an enzyme that helps activate an erection.[/b] It works by prompting the release of a body chemical called cyclic guanosine monophosphate (cGMP). This causes the smooth muscle cells in the penis' erectile tissue to relax.
[/quote]
@AthrillatheHunt
There are many types of compliments...not always about physical attractiveness. And of course, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. But mostly...guys are just horny and want to score! LOL
TexChik · F
@BizSuitStacy yep 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️
Benjr134 · M
Most times it’s because there is something about them I find interesting or intriguing. Everyone deserves a compliment now and again.
Lol damn I mostly just get insults 🥺
Because apparently I’m ugly. Like my face is shaped weird and I’m fat. @ronisme1
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
@MorbidCynic looking at your goth photo and your avatar photo you are not ugly at all. If some men dont like a heavier woman, that is their problem, not yours. And your face does not give off thst look of fat.
Queeen · 26-30, F
@MorbidCynic youre beautiful honey
JupiterDreams · 31-35
Not all men do that... Besides, beauty is subjective. Maybe they genuinely see beauty.
Cloudiness · 26-30, F
Because compliments are a nice casual gesture that makes people happys
DisturbOne · 41-45, M
Lmao not all guys , if you got an ugly soul I’ll tell you
SW-User
They think it might be a ticket into their pants lol
Oster1 · M
Because if one looks hard enough, they can always find something to compliment in just about any lady. There are also soulless women that I wouldn’t give the time of day too. Beauty is not always a barometer for goodness and gualities and is always subjective.😊
Chevy454 · 46-50, M
SW-User
@Chevy454 LMAO
Chevy454 · 46-50, M
Pretty much what it seems like on here!! Lol@SW-User
Possibly because the men in question know what it is like to have low self esteem and wish to help another not feel the same way.
Oster1 · M
@istillhaveanameitsrick Certainly, not always, even the the opposite!😊
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
I never do ...I only compliment where a compliment is due

Those that are more liberal with their compliments are trying to get into your panties
in10RjFox · M
Yeah .. for men emanate love and girls perceive them.. and that's how they make love bloom in women and make them pretty.
SW-User
they're kind, nicer to bodies attached with boobies, makes them empathetic
badminton · 61-69, MVIP
To win their favors.
perceptivei · 36-40, F
@badminton... to get some booty!
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perceptivei · 36-40, F
@badminton Hmm. I don't think giving a good BJ has anything to do with looks... but not all BJs are the same. 😒
[c=#359E00]they are hoping to get laid[/c]
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
@YukikoAmagi some yes, but a compliment on here wont get the man laid
cycleman · 61-69, M
I am petrified to compliment anyone
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
@cycleman I used to be that way. If you want a smile, start with hi or hello to people you pass. It's a process
SW-User
That’s usually when they are after something else...
melissa001 · 51-55, F
I've not found that to be true.
Chevy454 · 46-50, M
Have no freakin clue!!!!
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
They wanna hump.
SW-User
@SkeetSkeet 👌🏻
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
@SkeetSkeet some do

 
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