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Why do so many people start every sentence with 'So' these days?

I wish I didn't notice this kind of thing :(
Harriet03 · 41-45, F
In London you hear
"Not being funny but".......
It does my head In!!
Does it mean: stop whatever you're doing and listen to me?
@LegendofPeza I don't mind the rain. It rains in Spring.
Abstraction · 61-69, M
@EarthlingWise Exactly. Gain attention for the start of the sentence. It's present in other languages. In Spanish they have a few - what is it in French?
@Abstraction "Bon, alors..." or either of these ☺️
Cause everyone's feeling so so right now
Abstraction · 61-69, M
Actually, in Australia everyone starts sentences with 'actually'.
Mindful · 56-60, F
Oops
LegendofPeza · 56-60, M
Well I've noticed recently that politicians who do , do so as a means of evading a direct question or reframing the terms of discussion.

i.e. "So I don't agree with your premise , and here's how I'm going to answer instead ..... "
@LegendofPeza in that case, it really means, "whatever"?
Abstraction · 61-69, M
In Australia we start sentences with 'actually.' Total redundancy most of the time. My brother-in-law immediately says, 'Please don't call me Ashley.'
badminton · 61-69, MVIP
"So" at the start of a question often marks the beginning of a new topic that one of the parties wants to discuss, often called an "interactional agenda," according to Bolden.

"So how was your day?"

'The word is a marker of cause and result,' says Dr. Gardner-Chloros. 'Someone who starts an answer with “so” is marking that what he's saying is coherent with what came before — the question. He's saying what he wants to say, like a politician — but trying to make it sound like it's an answer to the question.

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MissyChrissy · 18-21, F
In Western Germany, many sentences end on "..., ne'?" or "..., wo'?", its slang for "nicht?/not true?" or "woll?/isn't it so?"
Markymark · 46-50
I’m glad it irritates other people too. I hate it.
MeowsoliniReturns · 51-55, F
I notice it as well. Ugh!
Abstraction · 61-69, M
Many Australians start sentences with 'Actually,...'

My brother-in-law responds, 'Stop calling me Ashley.'
daddybloke · 46-50, M
drives me up the wall
oldercanuck1 · 70-79, M
no never did ,,
I know I do that, probably because it’s how I might begin a story or tale about an event.
HotPizza71 · 51-55, M
Or "At the end of the day" before a sentence
Abstraction · 61-69, M
@HotPizza71 Listen to the news and see if you can get through a single broadcast without someone being interviewed using that phrase. Bingo!
HotPizza71 · 51-55, M
Or ANYWAYS🙄 GRRRRR
Mindful · 56-60, F
@HotPizza71 Guilty!!! And I can’t stop!!!! And I don’t like it either!!!!!!
SW-User
So, like I was literally starting my sentence with so and she like criticised me
@SW-User I read this in a high pitched voice 🤣
SW-User
@BeefySenpie So did I as I was typing it 😂😂
MethDozer · M
That has always been a thing
Bubbles · 36-40, F
comments starting with "so" incoming in 3..2...1.... :P
janesanders · 41-45, F
@Bubbles 😂
losthorizons · 51-55, M
Hey Jane. Pm me. Let’s chat @janesanders
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
And why do flight attendants begin every sentence with “Once again...”?
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
@CoffeeFirst Once again, you are correct.
Mindful · 56-60, F
@Harmonium1923 I don’t fly enough. Wait what region or airline do you use?
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
@Mindful Delta as much as possible but with the pandemic I haven’t flown in about a year. It’s bizarre.
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exexec · 61-69, C
It bothered me for a couple of years, but I can ignore it most of the time now. The exception is when a person being interviewed begins every sentence with "so...."
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
It sets a tone of familiarity and informality. Like you're sitting down with a friend, having coffee and chatting.
Shutterbug · 56-60, M
Or women who start conversations with.... haven't you been listening to me....🤷‍♂️
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
@Shutterbug Well, if you were listening, we wouldn't do that, would we? 😜
SW-User
I know I do this it allows me a moment to gather my thoughts... "So..."
Mindful · 56-60, F
@SW-User if I had to gather my thoughts first, I would sound like I was singing.
Harriet03 · 41-45, F
You really need to get out more hun! 🤷‍♀️
janesanders · 41-45, F
@Harriet03 'hun' 😆
Harriet03 · 41-45, F
@janesanders I call everybody hun, hun!
Abstraction · 61-69, M
Australians start every sentence with 'actually'.

It's thinking space or sometimes a tactic to break into the conversation.

Interesting - did you know that the thinking sounds (in English, um, ah, etc) are drawn from the vowel sounds of the language you speak?
So you'll hear the French, for example, when they're thinking use the vowel sound from 'oeuf'.
MrGoodbar · 51-55, M
and don't forget the double "Sooooo, Like"
SW-User
So why do you think they do that?
helsbels · 31-35, F
ugh, yes I hate it.
mainvane · 61-69, M
So they can annoy you☺️
Ninersfan73 · 51-55, M
That's funny my daughter and I were just discussing this the other night. She was getting ready for a mock interview at school and she does that a lot. She also uses "Like" in about every other word. Now that it's been pointed out she is really trying to curb it.
SW-User
Lol I’ve not heard that
SW-User
Well............
Lol
Pat999 · 31-35, M
is that so bad ?:)
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
When I wrte video scripts for work, I use it as a transition from one person to the next. Its just conversational, too. But I know there is one man who hates that so I don't use on his parts as speaker!
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
I do that at times, and when I catch it I go back and delete the "so" as it is truly unnecessary. Hate when I do that, and I have no reason on why I do that
MrGoodbar · 51-55, M
I find myself using it a lot lately, mostly when texting. I think I use it to get the person's attention and let them know a question or statement is coming
SW-User
Lol, once you have this in your mind, you probably won't shake it off and it will become a self perpetuating source of irritation for you. Poor you!
Driver2 · M
I noticed that to it’s fucking weird. Where did it come from?
So your very observant aren’t you.
MethDozer · M
@Driver2 been around since out grand parents
Leftyss · 56-60, M
Lol funny how you notice certain things... and dont know how to just say stop it without being rude
Hoosierxdaddy62 · 61-69, M
I first noticed it on NPR in the states. All the "hip" folks was doing it, then it spread. I don't get it either.
Thodsis · 51-55, M
They're like, literally, asking a question. And opening it up to, like, interpretation.
needsmilk808 · 56-60, M
That's a good question, I don't know. I guess it's similar to saying 'like' every third word or something.
I do that sometimes because it’s like a continuation of a conversation.
SW-User
I’ve not noticed this before but no doubt it will be bloody everywhere lol
Benjr134 · M
Sometimes I’m bad for that. I generally do it when I’m trying to get someone’s opinion.
Northerner · 70-79, M
It seems like everyone on TV starts their sentences with this. It drives me crazy.lol
losthorizons · 51-55, M
Sooooo Jane. How are you today?!! Hahaha🤣🤣🤣. Just kidding. Lol. Pm me. Let’s chat😁

 
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