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Why do so many people start every sentence with 'So' these days?

I wish I didn't notice this kind of thing :(
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Bubbles · 36-40, F
comments starting with "so" incoming in 3..2...1.... :P
janesanders · 46-50, F
@Bubbles 😂
losthorizons · 51-55, M
Hey Jane. Pm me. Let’s chat @janesanders
Harriet03 · 41-45, F
In London you hear
"Not being funny but".......
It does my head In!!
Does it mean: stop whatever you're doing and listen to me?
@LegendofPeza I don't mind the rain. It rains in Spring.
Abstraction · 61-69, M
@EarthlingWise Exactly. Gain attention for the start of the sentence. It's present in other languages. In Spanish they have a few - what is it in French?
@Abstraction "Bon, alors..." or either of these ☺️
Cause everyone's feeling so so right now
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
And why do flight attendants begin every sentence with “Once again...”?
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
@CoffeeFirst Once again, you are correct.
Mindful · 56-60, F
@Harmonium1923 I don’t fly enough. Wait what region or airline do you use?
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
@Mindful Delta as much as possible but with the pandemic I haven’t flown in about a year. It’s bizarre.
Abstraction · 61-69, M
Actually, in Australia everyone starts sentences with 'actually'.
Mindful · 56-60, F
Oops
LegendofPeza · 61-69, M
Well I've noticed recently that politicians who do , do so as a means of evading a direct question or reframing the terms of discussion.

i.e. "So I don't agree with your premise , and here's how I'm going to answer instead ..... "
@LegendofPeza in that case, it really means, "whatever"?
exexec · 70-79, C
It bothered me for a couple of years, but I can ignore it most of the time now. The exception is when a person being interviewed begins every sentence with "so...."
badminton · 61-69, MVIP
"So" at the start of a question often marks the beginning of a new topic that one of the parties wants to discuss, often called an "interactional agenda," according to Bolden.

"So how was your day?"

'The word is a marker of cause and result,' says Dr. Gardner-Chloros. 'Someone who starts an answer with “so” is marking that what he's saying is coherent with what came before — the question. He's saying what he wants to say, like a politician — but trying to make it sound like it's an answer to the question.

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Abstraction · 61-69, M
In Australia we start sentences with 'actually.' Total redundancy most of the time. My brother-in-law immediately says, 'Please don't call me Ashley.'
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
It sets a tone of familiarity and informality. Like you're sitting down with a friend, having coffee and chatting.
MissyChrissy · 18-21, F
In Western Germany, many sentences end on "..., ne'?" or "..., wo'?", its slang for "nicht?/not true?" or "woll?/isn't it so?"
SW-User
I know I do this it allows me a moment to gather my thoughts... "So..."
Mindful · 56-60, F
@SW-User if I had to gather my thoughts first, I would sound like I was singing.
Shutterbug · 56-60, M
Or women who start conversations with.... haven't you been listening to me....🤷‍♂️
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
@Shutterbug Well, if you were listening, we wouldn't do that, would we? 😜
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Abstraction · 61-69, M
Australians start every sentence with 'actually'.

It's thinking space or sometimes a tactic to break into the conversation.

Interesting - did you know that the thinking sounds (in English, um, ah, etc) are drawn from the vowel sounds of the language you speak?
So you'll hear the French, for example, when they're thinking use the vowel sound from 'oeuf'.
MrGoodbar · 51-55, M
and don't forget the double "Sooooo, Like"
SW-User
So why do you think they do that?
MeowsoliniReturns · 51-55, F
I notice it as well. Ugh!
SW-User
Lol I’ve not heard that
Ninersfan73 · 51-55, M
That's funny my daughter and I were just discussing this the other night. She was getting ready for a mock interview at school and she does that a lot. She also uses "Like" in about every other word. Now that it's been pointed out she is really trying to curb it.
SW-User
Well............
Lol
Harriet03 · 41-45, F
You really need to get out more hun! 🤷‍♀️
janesanders · 46-50, F
@Harriet03 'hun' 😆
Harriet03 · 41-45, F
@janesanders I call everybody hun, hun!
Pat999 · 31-35, M
is that so bad ?:)
MrGoodbar · 51-55, M
I find myself using it a lot lately, mostly when texting. I think I use it to get the person's attention and let them know a question or statement is coming
Thodsis · 51-55, M
They're like, literally, asking a question. And opening it up to, like, interpretation.
needsmilk808 · 56-60, M
That's a good question, I don't know. I guess it's similar to saying 'like' every third word or something.
Abstraction · 61-69, M
Many Australians start sentences with 'Actually,...'

My brother-in-law responds, 'Stop calling me Ashley.'
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
When I wrte video scripts for work, I use it as a transition from one person to the next. Its just conversational, too. But I know there is one man who hates that so I don't use on his parts as speaker!
I do that sometimes because it’s like a continuation of a conversation.
mainvane · 61-69, M
So they can annoy you☺️
Benjr134 · M
Sometimes I’m bad for that. I generally do it when I’m trying to get someone’s opinion.
VeronicaPrincess · 61-69
So now I'll be noticing that - thanks a lot! 🥳
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So actually I never noticed myself doing that but when I do, I'll catch myself and stop.
Hoosierxdaddy62 · 61-69, M
I first noticed it on NPR in the states. All the "hip" folks was doing it, then it spread. I don't get it either.
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
Does not seem that there are many these days.
wellsaid · 41-45, M
Is it like -
So, how is the new place for you?

😂
TexChik · F
That’s a little better than starting with “ like” ...
SW-User
It is very common now. I do it myself sometimes!
SW-User
And happy belated new year to you gorgeous lady 💋💋
losthorizons · 51-55, M
Sooooo Jane. How are you today?!! Hahaha🤣🤣🤣. Just kidding. Lol. Pm me. Let’s chat😁
LookingForIt987 · 51-55, M
I do this a lot in emails, and it bugs me when I proofread! Ugh!
PeterJ · 56-60, M
Glad I'm not the only one that notices...lol
Driver2 · M
I noticed that too , but why ?
So, what are you up to "these days" ? 😁
chrisCA · M
Better than, "Like, you know..."
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Mindful · 56-60, F
@Nutt773 omg, I hear in training all the time!!!!!! I get it’s a quick and easy transition. It is surprising how common it is.
SW-User
so these days i do the same
Thelo · 56-60, M
So, like, I'm not really sure! :)

 
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