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Why is it always men to initiate a relationship but always the first one to walk away from the relationship? Don’t start something you don’t really

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Virgo94 · 26-30, F Best Comment
Hmm good question. Although I've always done the ending. Like why go after someone just to lie to them or cheat in the end?

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
The last is not true. In fact most of my relationships it was the girl that ended it
Carazaa · F
Carazaa · F
@DeWayfarer You look awfully grey today 🥺
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@Carazaa Kind of. Situations lately have been grey. Nothing that I care to share openly though without seeming whiny.

Thank you for asking though.😊
Nimbus · M
Maybe they're not keen on generalisations?
Crazychick · 36-40, F
@Nimbus Nobody likes generalisations where I live, and that's not a generalisation, it's a fact.
nedkelly · 61-69, M
@Crazychick Show me your facts and evidence
Crazychick · 36-40, F
@nedkelly Come and visit my neighbourhood and see for yourself. That's the only way to find out for sure.
That’s a pretty poor generalisation.
Witchthatwantsfun · 36-40, F
I mean I know it isn’t always like that but I think majority are like that.@SirenCalledLuce
@Witchthatwantsfun I think you’re focusing on a minority of guys and and tarring them all with the same brush. Like a guy saying why are all women gold diggers. There’s good and bad people out there.
Start initiating your future relationships
I guess it depends on the culture, but an ancient proverb says "Men do the chasing, women do the choosing". So it depends on what one considers initiating, though women would do well to choose one who doesn't chase after every body.
nedkelly · 61-69, M
So you have a failed relationship, it may have been easier for the male to walk away instead of listening to you all day
Witchthatwantsfun · 36-40, F
Hmph.@nedkelly
330GTC · 61-69, M
It isn't quite always true, I started a relationship with someone whom I knew was going to end it so I just let it go as long as I could and enjoyed every minute of it while it lasted. I knew it was my fault.
Carazaa · F
If I find a Godly man my age whom I love I will propose, no problem at all!
Carazaa · F
@Crazychick Maybe but many nowadays aren't saved.
Crazychick · 36-40, F
@Carazaa What do you mean? I thought they were supposed to save others through the name of Jesus. Isn't that what going to Church is all about?
Carazaa · F
@Crazychick They are to preach the word of God, yes. But many only went to seminary school and are not saved at all. Some are cons! So its best just to read the Bible, and look for a good church but don't believe every word that's preached. Jesus says that in the last days "Satan will stand in the Holy place" We have to be careful that we know the Bible well. Jesus says "My own will hear my voice"
Crazychick · 36-40, F
It's not always that way at all. In fact it's more often the women who initiate relationships where I live. I was the one who initiated ours, not my husband.
gregloa · 61-69, M
Quite the opposite
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Crazychick · 36-40, F
@SW-User Whatever.
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Chevy454 · 46-50, M
Maybe initiate, but I think women usually end it. Most men, I think, will stay in a bad, miserable relationship for a long time. Women, when they’re done they’re done.
therighttothink50 · 56-60, M
People are afraid to finish up, so they just let it die out, prolly not right to do.
I have seen it work the other way.
a woman that chooses who she wants.

equally some women choose to dump that looser too!

that start/ stop thing?
many Humans start one thing, but really want another.

or worse, only want "that bit" and not for long. fellows most often.

there is a HORRIBLE saying

Men offer love to get sex, women offer sex to get love.

I hate how often that seems true
Eternity · 26-30, M
Easy come easy go. A lot of women's relationship woes come from the fact that they filter feed like sea sponges or some shit.

They just sit around and wait for dudes to shoot their shots.

How about go find a man who is doing good things with himself and ask him out? Trailblaze and whatnot.

 
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