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Happily Married and commited guys ..question for you ..

How is it at all possible to stay commited when you see beautiful hot and young girls who are much much more attractive than your girls ? Can you guys really remain faithful ? Please dont take this as an offense to your faithfulness but if i were a guy ..it would really be extremely hard for me to remain faithful if i make beauty the parameter of my spouse or love as my girl might not be the most beautiful one.
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FrostBorne · 31-35, M Best Comment
That's the trick. A good marriage and relationship aren't hinged soley on the physical. I'm not with my wife because she's the hottest girl in the world, I'm with her because I love her as a person. Of course, I also think she is incredibly hot, however, it's easiest to remain faithful when you realize that marraige is far more than sex and beauty.

Secondly, I think couples place too stress on themselves, especially women. Just because I see a woman who I think is especially attractive, does not mean that I think less of my wife. My wife understands that if I see another girl, celebrity or no, that I don't think less of her. Guys are capable of thinking that their wife is attractive and thinking another girl is attractive at the same time while still remaining 100% faithful.

workathome · 56-60, M
my love goes beyond looks, sure I see women sometimes and wonder what it would be like to be with them, but my wife is my best friend and I would never betray her
RemovedUsername909897 · 31-35, F
Find out what he wants and then give it to him. A beautiful bore is no match for a dream come true
Men I like a tin roof..
If you don’t nail them right, they end up over at the neighbors
SW-User
that is quite the assumption that men only look at beauty as you call it, the parameter of our relationships.. this is very closed minded on your part
SW-User
@SW-User lol again very biased. just where do you get your information? this is totally sexist and fucking wrong.. I can hardly believe you know "most" men
SW-User
@SW-User ya you are right probably .
SW-User
@SW-User just look around anywhere, how many housewifes and mothers are super models? not too many but gee guess what? they all have loving husbands.. sure some men have affairs, but so do some women. and they do not always have an affair just because of looks? you may be talking about boys, not men.. we do need more than just looks to satisfy us
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Dolimyte · 41-45, M
You seem to think us all so shallow to only care about looks. There are also other options besides monogamy.
SW-User
@Dolimyte well most men prefer beautiful girls ..
Sarthak35 · 36-40, M
You Can ask same question to married womens.
SW-User
@Sarthak35 i will next
cd4259 · 61-69, M
Just remember that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
I'm surrounded by hot young babes all day long — and not a one has the time of day for me, so I'm not worried.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@SW-User Come back when you're grown up and we'll talk.
SW-User
@DunningKruger why are you being angry ? I just counter argued ur point .
SW-User
@DunningKruger sorry i dint get ur first point ..what did you mean ? The girls dont have time for u or you dont have time for her ?
I try to ugly myself up a bit to keep so many disinterested. it works most of the time. LOL

 
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