Happily Married and commited guys ..question for you ..

How is it at all possible to stay commited when you see beautiful hot and young girls who are much much more attractive than your girls ? Can you guys really remain faithful ? Please dont take this as an offense to your faithfulness but if i were a guy ..it would really be extremely hard for me to remain faithful if i make beauty the parameter of my spouse or love as my girl might not be the most beautiful one.

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FrostBorne · 31-35, M Best Comment

That's the trick. A good marriage and relationship aren't hinged soley on the physical. I'm not with my wife because she's the hottest girl in the world, I'm with her because I love her as a person. Of course, I also think she is incredibly hot, however, it's easiest to remain faithful when you realize that marraige is far more than sex and beauty.

Secondly, I think couples place too stress on themselves, especially women. Just because I see a woman who I think is especially attractive, does not mean that I think less of my wife. My wife understands that if I see another girl, celebrity or no, that I don't think less of her. Guys are capable of thinking that their wife is attractive and thinking another girl is attractive at the same time while still remaining 100% faithful.