Thing's people say to you that sound shallow?

While working as a bartender a customer came in that had not seen me in a while. He said, "Damn, you sure are beautiful, but....you were HOT before you gained that weight." Then he continued to stare at me and flirt throughout the night as if I should just be so grateful for his backhanded compliment.

Rutterman · 46-50, M

"Just be yourself."

SW-User

“I’m not like everyone else” sounds pretty shallow to me. It’s assuming they know anything real about...everyone. They saw the surface of people in general and then wrote everyone off as not worth knowing anything deep about.

SharonByNight

"If you need anything, just let me know"

AlasPoorYorick · 51-55, M

Don’t go in the deep end of the pool. Go here.

bijouxbroussard · F

Ha ! “You look good—for your age.” 🤨

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

"I hope you get everything you have coming to you."

SW-User

I can't think of anything....even cliches, for me, are meanigful. Bottom line: it's how people say things.

Heartlander · 80-89, M

Hmmm ...

"we need to get together one of these days."

revenant · F

we care. yeah right

SW-User

You need drug and alcohol to have fun. You need to live as per them, else your life sucks.
If you argue with their friends, then you are automatically wrong.
If you are friends with them, you need to be friends with all their friends.

JustGoneNow

“It’ll get better.” Sometimes it fucking doesn’t. Or “You can get through this.” How the fuck would they know that. Maybe I fucking can’t. Those two.

royalblue1193 · 31-35, M

"You're silly"