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are you married ? if you ever got divorced would you marry again ?

i was married for 10 years. ive been divorced for almost 2 years now. i dont think i could ever get married again...
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
No. Once was enough. I want my own space. Companionship would be enough.
Gentlemickey · 70-79, M
@Keepitsimple My thoughts exactly !! 🤔😏
Many let the ones who have hurt them cause lifelong issues. I give no one that power. I was married once for 3 decades. I divorced him. He was undesirable and really rotten. He couldn't speak the truth let alone live it. I have been divorce for 5.5 years now. I am very happy. And, one fine day, I shall marry again. A desirable man. A loving man. A man who is the best man for me.
GerOttman · 61-69, M
We've been married 30 years, if that was going to happen it would have by now. We have been through a few rough patches, but all in all we are still together and in love. I couldn't see marrying again, it just would not be as good.
Brooksy · 41-45, M
I'm getting divorced right now. I'd be kidding myself if I said I'd never marry again, but one thing I'm certain of; I'll never put myself in a position where I can't say "fuck this" and exit the relationship quickly
Brooksy · 41-45, M
Thank you, Fun ♥️ It's taken a toll on my prince the most. They're my whole world and I miss them so much
@Brooksy That is dooming any future relationship, dude. Sure you want it that way? Divorce can be expensive. So can living a lonely, unloved life.
Brooksy · 41-45, M
I'm paying for it right now, sadly. At the moment, yes, I'd rather be alone than end up enduring another marriage like that.... That may change though. It's just where my mind is right now
SweetMae · 70-79, F
Yes and no. I wouldn't want to marry again.
TexChik · F
@SweetMae 😊
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@TexChik ☺️
TexChik · F
Yes, and no. I couldn’t get that lucky twice
If I find myself single in the future, I don't think I'll marry again.
TexChik · F
@Brooksy yep you get an A for effort. Sorry it's happened 🙁
Brooksy · 41-45, M
Thank you, Tex. Me too. I'd truly rather have been able to reconcile. I still love her as my kid's mother. I just can't be around her
TexChik · F
@Brooksy I remember the issues. I agree
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SeekingHappiness · 36-40, M
@Glambarber youre welcome :) id probably be married still if i was a better husband...i guess we just grew apart, it became like living miserably instead joyfully. im still trying to find myself, ive gone on date with women etc, nothing feels right ..
TexChik · F
@Glambarber exciting!
Montanaman · M
Yes the second time around was my soulmate 💕
SeekingHappiness · 36-40, M
@Montanaman thats awesome man ! maybe one day ill find someone again
Montanaman · M
@SeekingHappiness I believe it. Now you have to.👍👍🤗
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@Montanaman Same here...I wouldn't trade her for the world.🥰
SW-User
Been married for a long time but if he dies before I do, I might remarry again. I like being married.
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
Yes, I am married.
I don’t like to say I’d “never” do something, but I doubt I’d remarry.
gmatthewb · 51-55, M
I was married for 6 years, swore I would never do it again. Only reason I'm married now is because my wife has a terminal illness and it makes things much more complicated when she passes. Neither of us actually wanted to get married, just simpler this way. I am very sure I will never do the marriage thing again though. Too old now anyway.
@gmatthewb People get married way into their nineties these days. Never limit your choices. You don't know what the future shall bring you in the way of romance.
gmatthewb · 51-55, M
@PoetryNEmotion This is true, but I'd rather just have a relationship without marriage. Don't need to go through all that hassle again. Of course, that is if a woman wants to be that close to me, that is the first step :)
SW-User
I was married 22 years, I've been divorced a little over one year, and I also don't know if I'll ever get married again.
SW-User
@PoetryNEmotion Thank you, my sweet friend. So do you! I'm not closed off to the idea, I just question whether it'll actually happen. 🤗
@SW-User The choice will be there. I see it. Far in the future...
SW-User
@PoetryNEmotion Hmmm, I hope not too far or I'll be too old to enjoy ..... some of its benefits. 😏
indyjoe · 56-60, M
I've been divorced once. I wasn't planning on getting married again, but I found the most wonderful woman I have ever met or known. Divorce is NOT something in my future now. The only way I won't be without my wife is if (God forbid) she would die. If that were to happen and she went before me, no I would not do it again.
AnneHoney · 36-40, F
Marriage is for the very young and very old.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@AnneHoney That is a question I have asked over and over again but have never had an answer. I am not worried about it, that was 20 years ago...I am happily married again (which has lasted three times longer than that one) and she is unhappily married to her last cheating partner.
AnneHoney · 36-40, F
I’m glad it worked out for you. @indyjoe
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@AnneHoney Yes it has worked out better than I can ever imagine.
No, I asked a similar question here, " what to expect in a second marriage". So, I'm curious now; why wouldn't you get married again? Care to share!
SeekingHappiness · 36-40, M
@Hayman It feels like its way too much work...the dynamics of it are way too much for me. the constant ups and downs. Id be constantly wondering if i was being betrayed, constantly dealing with my own demons that i dont want anyone else to see me struggling with. Constantly wondering if was good enough...i just dont wanna do it again.
@SeekingHappiness Woof! That's heavy. Thanks for sharing. stay healthy, stay strong.
Byron8by7 · M
I divorced earlier this year. I don't know that I would ever marry again, but I would never say never. I would like a female companion for a committed relationship, but it depends on many other things.
Northwest · M
I was married for 18 years. Divorced for 13. I can't think of a single reason to get married. Being with a partner is a different story, and some simple legal forms can take care of all the legal issues marriage handles.
No am not married, and if I was divorced then I might remarry again, after all the person who I married first was obviously the wrong person so maybe the second will be the right one.
Travelbug · 56-60, F
I love my boyfriend and he adores me. We've both been married before and we're happy the way we are. Marriage is just an expensive piece of paper.
@Travelbug So’s a driver’s license, mortgage, birth certificate and paycheck. They represent real things, though.
SW-User
If I ever get married I’m only ever doing it once. Although what is marriage anyway? It’s betting someone half your shit that you will stay together forever.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
If I were to get a divorce someday, that would be it. I will have been married, and that's enough.
AnneHoney · 36-40, F
I would not ask to be married, but if the right guy felt strongly about having I license I likely would.
Repete · 61-69, M
I was and yes I did then again I'm not and not planing on it. ( you figure it out 😂
SW-User
That one nasty divorce was enough to scare me away for good.
I won't get married again.
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
Yes, 35 years. I don't see a divorce ahead -- I'll just die.
DaughterOfTheDust · 22-25, F
I don’t think I want to ever get married. Seems complicated.
FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F
Not married and not looking to get married
Dusty101 · F
A big fat No!
SW-User
I’be been widowed for several years now. I’ve dated, had a steady boyfriend or two, but I don’t see myself marrying again.

 
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