On a scale of 1-10 how important are looks when the person is fun, has similar goals and...

Indulge · 41-45, F

5

VioletRayne · 36-40, F

pretty much non-existent. At this point I’d take an amphibian like humanoid alien if it’d be faithful n help raise the kids🤣

SW-User

From my experience, when someone likes the things i like and has a similar personality and goals, then they always seem to look great in their own way. They might not fit the dream type of look, but honestly who cares. I am way past caring about that. As long as they tick the boxes in the other areas that's what counts.

Selah ·

I dont care about looks until i meet someone im attracted to then i dont care about anything else lmao

deadgerbil · 26-30, M

Depends on what you want. Looks aren't a barrier for friendships, they can be a barrier for relationships and that's completely normal.

SW-User

I still need to find them physically attractive enough to desire for them to be more than a friend.

SW-User

eh as long as you can handle looking at them

Chrissquish · 22-25, M

I'd say looks are the most important thing, The other person has to look good to go outside with me.

YoungPoet345 · 26-30, F

For a relationship, looks are important, but not more important than an emotional bond. Often, an emotional attraction leads to a physical attraction. Personally, I thought my bf was hot when I first met him, but until we developed a strong emotional bond and I was attracted to him on the inside, I never considered going out with him. Friends for 2 years first.

SW-User

I should look decent so they're just gonna laugh at my jokes and not at my face.

Dan193 · 31-35, M

About a 4 for me, and we both can work up from there.

CountScrofula · 41-45, M

If a person is a match in all ways but appearance, appearance is a 1.

BeefySenpie · M

Looks are somewhat important still

Eternity · 26-30, M

I mean I'm a bit of a eugenicist. I 100% care more about her being into me and being compatible. However, I just cant get it up for a lady who looks like a chimp. I say give me something I can work with. Like if she's somewhat pretty and just a lil chunky I can work with that. We can hit the gym together and both come up a few points on the 10 scale.

Lostpoet · M

Not that important.

Dewms

looks are a bonus to me

lulaluboo

Not very.

Jessie407 · 70-79, M

1 or lower.

Allelse · 36-40, M

As long as they dont look like her -

SW-User

1

Vivaci

I think if your goals and personality match, you still need chemistry to make it work. Looks don't hold that much significance after a while...

Kazuya69 · 31-35, M

depends do you mean to date? be friends with? work with?

Stark

I rarely focus on appearances when I do their personality just ends up ruining it 99% of the time. Lol

Someone’s personality can make them attractive me tbh

Scarlet5 · 26-30, F

Maybe 3? Not too sure..

SW-User

For me, i'd say 5.

Astro · 56-60, M

Well shoot I don't care that much. If we click, we click and if I want to be around them then I'm staying. I'm not exactly gorgeous myself

SW-User

Idk the way they conduct themselves matters more bc I see so many well built guys act like jocks and average guys with more class like their looks fade if their personality is shit

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

I can't give a number, but there must be *some* amount of physical attraction/chemistry or the whole thing won't translate out of the friend zone.

bijouxbroussard · F

Not at all to me.
(edit)
It would probably be more accurate to say that people have become attractive to me because of their personalities.