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On a scale of 1-10 how important are looks when the person is fun, has similar goals and personality?

VioletRayne · 31-35, F
[c=#4C0073]pretty much non-existent. At this point I’d take an amphibian like humanoid alien if it’d be faithful n help raise the kids🤣[/c]
@VioletRayne lol same. I need someone to put up my shelves & finance multiple pregnancies
NoYou · 26-30, M
Multiple pregnancies you say?@DarlingSelah
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I dont care about looks until i meet someone im attracted to then i dont care about anything else lmao
VioletRayne · 31-35, F
@DarlingSelah 🤣 same
@VioletRayne smh 😂
SW-User
From my experience, when someone likes the things i like and has a similar personality and goals, then they always seem to look great in their own way. They might not fit the dream type of look, but honestly who cares. I am way past caring about that. As long as they tick the boxes in the other areas that's what counts.
@SW-User I agree with this completely 🙂
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@Stark Cool! 😊
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Idk the way they conduct themselves matters more bc I see so many well built guys act like jocks and average guys with more class like their looks fade if their personality is shit
deadgerbil · 22-25
Depends on what you want. Looks aren't a barrier for friendships, they can be a barrier for relationships and that's completely normal.
Eternity · 26-30, M
I mean I'm a bit of a eugenicist. I 100% care more about her being into me and being compatible. However, I just cant get it up for a lady who looks like a chimp. I say give me something I can work with. Like if she's somewhat pretty and just a lil chunky I can work with that. We can hit the gym together and both come up a few points on the 10 scale.
@Eternity How is that connected to eugenics?
Eternity · 26-30, M
@bijouxbroussard I was gonna link it explicitly but I felt like it was getting too wordy. I meant to imply that I dont want to curse my children with being unattractive. I was a late bloomer so I know how it feels to look fuckin weird. Sucks. Luckily I have good genes and grew up to be somewhat handsome with a decent build. I'd hate to put them in a similar situation but with no such reprieve to look forward to.
@Eternity Oh, okay.
I still need to find them physically attractive enough to desire for them to be more than a friend.
YoungPoet345 · 26-30, F
For a relationship, looks are important, but not more important than an emotional bond. Often, an emotional attraction leads to a physical attraction. Personally, I thought my bf was hot when I first met him, but until we developed a strong emotional bond and I was attracted to him on the inside, I never considered going out with him. Friends for 2 years first.
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eh as long as you can handle looking at them
Chrissquish · 22-25, M
I'd say looks are the most important thing, The other person has to look good to go outside with me.
@Chrissquish Yes, shallow. Sounds like you’d choose someone “stylish” over someone who might actually care about you. Well, you had to learn about bullying. You might be the sort who’s destined to learn all things the hard way.
Chrissquish · 22-25, M
@bijouxbroussard If I was walking around with someone well dressed and attractive then at least people would want to be like us.
@Chrissquish I don’t know if you’re really that foolish or just trolling. I kind of hope it’s the latter. Either way, it’s a drag.
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I should look decent so they're just gonna laugh at my jokes and not at my face.
@SW-User your profile pic is really cute
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Astro · 56-60, M
Well shoot I don't care that much. If we click, we click and if I want to be around them then I'm staying. I'm not exactly gorgeous myself
Dan193 · 31-35, M
About a 4 for me, and we both can work up from there.
Dan193 · 31-35, M
Also I hope they don't have a "similar personality" as me. I wish she'd be more joyful.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
If a person is a match in all ways but appearance, appearance is a 1.
Allelse · 36-40, M
As long as they dont look like her -

Looks are somewhat important still
Lostpoet · M
Not that important.
looks are a bonus to me
Jessie407 · 70-79, M
1 or lower.
I rarely focus on appearances when I do their personality just ends up ruining it 99% of the time. Lol

Someone’s personality can make them attractive me tbh
I think if your goals and personality match, you still need chemistry to make it work. Looks don't hold that much significance after a while...
Kazuya69 · 31-35, M
depends do you mean to date? be friends with? work with?
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For me, i'd say 5.
Scarlet5 · 26-30, F
Maybe 3? Not too sure..
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
I can't give a number, but there must be *some* amount of physical attraction/chemistry or the whole thing won't translate out of the friend zone.
Not at all to me.
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It would probably be more accurate to say that people have become attractive to me because of their personalities.

 
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