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Do you say African-American or black?

I was having a discussion with my sister about what we would prefer to be called. I understand some of you may call us derogatory terms, this conversation isn’t really for you.
carsonfry · 22-25, M Best Comment
Whatever you would rather be called. I would prefer just American. But if you have to make some kind of distinction, I want to know which you would prefer?

I have no hate for anyone until they disrespect me. Does not matter their color.
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
@KaciAlex Which area are you from? Because it's actually not that difficult to ascertain with probability. For example, many African Americans actually are of Yoruba or Fon descent.

Some cultural elements still remain. Like Louisiana Voodoo is based on Fon lore such as the Loa.
KaciAlex · 26-30, F
@basilfawlty89 I don’t know my African heritage.
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
@KaciAlex I meant in the US. Because like I said, he can't exactly be told with certainty, but for example, if you're from the South, odds are Yoruba or Fon.

I had awkward conversation with a white lady & for some reason she wanted to tell me her daughters favorite doll was "African-American". & i was like...dolls dont have nationalities :? Lmao thats like saying barbie is French canadian. Its weirdly specific & presumptious.
@DarlingSelah I hate when people go out of their way to “prove” they’re not racist and it’s usually under unnecessary circumstances. This one customer I was helping at work felt the need to express to me that her best friend was black when she was a kid. It was completely irrelevant to what we were talking about and weird.
@Stark i think theyre just racist, insecure, & neurotic.
With me they’re interchangeable. But then I remember how the term came into being, back when most of us had no idea which countries in Africa those ancestors came from, so we couldn’t say Nigerian-American, Congolese-American, etc. the way people say they’re Irish- or Italian-American, Mexican-American et al, back at a point when people were interested in embracing their roots and hyphenating. Now DNA tests provide a lot of that information, but people still use the term (African-American). I refer to myself mostly as “black” even though technically I’m biracial, because when you see me, you see a black woman. I figure, why complicate things. 😊
@basilfawlty89 I would love to be able to find out if the Nigerian ancestry I discovered through DNA is Yoruba, Igbo, Hausa-Fulani, or one of the others. I had older family members who practiced Vodou, so that could be a hint. 🤔
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
@bijouxbroussard Likely it means you do have Yoruba or Fon ancestors. Especially if you're family came in part from the Louisiana area. I dunno how much you know about voodoo/vodou, but it's really fascinating actually (and not "evil" like Hollywood tried to make it to be).
@basilfawlty89 I grew up with it. Both of my parents are from New Orleans, but Pop’s relatives were from the 6th Ward. People used to visit one of his aunts for different rituals. As far as I knew it was just part of the “old religion”, nothing to be afraid of. But I learned not to speak of it with everyone because so many were (are) frightened.
@Stark Yeah, I’ve heard that before. In the 70s an older white guy came up to me using all this ridiculous slang like he thought he was trying to “relate” to me or something, I guess. I hadn’t yet opened my mouth, so he had no way of knowing how I’d sound. I finally told him, no ‘vernacular’, “please don’t feel you need to do that...”
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@bijouxbroussard I’ve actually had that happen to me before as well ! I think the guy was just joking but it was still really offensive.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
Black 90% of the time because that's the word people use to describe themselves. African-American when I'm talking about specific population groups, but the term is kind of imprecise.
SW-User
Both, same as us being called white or caucasian ...African person would be born in Africa?
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
@SW-User Although Caucasian is actually a misnomer as the actual people from the Caucasus mountains aren't white, they're brown. The nomenclature is thanks to Blumenbach.
@SW-User And someone [b]born[/b] in Africa can specify in which [b]country[/b] on that continent they were born. So other than South Africa, they don’t have to use the term—they can say they’re “Ugandan-American”, for example.
Aidan · 26-30
Black. I'm not from Africa. Why arent white people continually called European American
pentacorn · F
@Aidan exactly.
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
I don't refer to anyone by race unless it help identify them to a stranger who doesn't recognize the name.
FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F
I say their name,I don't know if someone is African just by looking at them
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Were you born in Africa?
KaciAlex · 26-30, F
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
@KaciAlex Then your not African American.
Alittlebitofsomething · 26-30, F
I think black is best, I call myself black
Black-fella
White -fella
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I say black. To me, African-American has nothing to do with color. I have a friend who was born in South Africa, then moved to America. She just happens to be white, but she's African-American. Any color people born in Africa are African. Any color people born in America are American.
5thApprentice · 31-35, M
Black.

I'm brown, they're white, etc.
abe182 · 46-50, M
Should have done a poll.
Black
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Sexy, I mean both.
I say black, some people might find it more offensive saying African American if they're..let's say Jamaican or something.
JP1119 · 36-40, M
Black. The human hearth is in Africa, therefore I’m white and African-American.
Black. Although it’s no more descriptive than white is.
Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F
Am black African from northern Africa
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Too me you guys are just Americans.
@Thevy29 I’ve always been curious and honestly don’t know know, how do the aboriginals identify themselves ? Do they use their tribal ethnicities ? 🤔
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Having friends from Haiti and Jamaica, I use both.
Marcette88 · 36-40, F
I generally ask what the person would prefer.
I'm not sure what to use O:
SW-User
Both, depending on the context
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African-American
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Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F
@SW-User hahahhaha racisim always makes me laugh
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TacoCat · 22-25, M
Black
Lolco · 36-40, M
Either
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Thanos · 31-35, M
MarineBob · 56-60, M
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
It's not my lane, but I think African-American specifically refers to the descendants of Sub-Saharan Africans who were enslaved. Whereas black could mean someone who is say from the UK and moved to America, but from African descent.
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
@Collegegirl23 I'm mixed (Mexican and Irish), but I live in South Africa, it's a very very long story lol.
Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F
@basilfawlty89 lol halairious I would never live there am african and am afraid to go there
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
@Collegegirl23 It's not nearly as bad as you think. People overstate stuff happening here.
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I say Black.

 
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