So what's with all the spankophiles?

@SW-User Happy New Year to you and all my friends here at SW!

@irishmolly72 not sure why i just saw this now, but spank you...er hem...i mean thank you so much. I hope 2018 is good to you.

@SensibleJulie How could she see him if she was being spanked?

@irishmolly72 That's quite witty.

😁

@artistinresidence The thing is, generalisations are as annoying as fcuk (misprint), so why would anybody want to make them?

it is easier. annoying, but easier, that is why i ask a lot of questions of people to understand where they come from . @NankerPhelge

@artistinresidence Taking the easier route is not very often the safe way.

@Goralski That never occured to me.

@SatanBurger I didn't say YOU said it was a disorder, I was wondering why the powers-that-be, or society, or whatever you wish to call it, would think that. I didn't phrase my comment in such a way as to imply you were the one who thought that, did I?

@samueltyler2 Dr Spock would be stunned!

@irishmolly72 I can't speak for him, butbi am shocked by it. I won't blame everything on #45 but it seems as if really peculiar behavior has become so common, frightening.

@AbbyS94 ... things that make you go hmmm

absolutely nothing,,, but weirdness @Saige

@QuixoticSoul Back on Webcamnow there was a room 8 for all the homosexuals. I guess it's the same kind of thing.

@SW-User True, I didn't know he was fantasizing about that

@irishmolly72 that’s exactly what he is doing here virtually isn’t it?

I don't know. I have never spoken with this particular mystery man.

@SensibleJulie wow it's a whole dynamic! thanks for responding julie

@irishmolly72 It's several dynamics.

Spankos can be divided into several camps.

1) pure spanking (they badmouth BDSM)

In the pure spanking dynamic you find sub-camps such as

"Domestic Discipline"
"Christian Domestic Discipline"

In these two you have married or quasi-married couples who use spanking as a punishment fpr bad behaviour in the relationship.

Depending on the couple one partner will be spanked or both will. The Christians tend to confine the spanking to wives.

Then you have the BDSM spankos

They can be:

Top and bottom: neither party owns the other they just play together.

D/s some ownership

M/s (Master/slave) more ownership.

Then you have different kinds of spankings

1) Punishment
2) Erotic (yes people can be spanked to orgasm)
3) To impart endorphins. Here gradually increased pain stimulus causes the body to produce the natural pain killers called endorphins so the recipient gets a 'high' similar to the ones joggers get

@SensibleJulie Ironically, the Christian folks are also under the BDSM umbrella, whether they realize it or not.

@SolidHeart It’s a popular fetish - bdsm in general is probably the most prevalent set of sexual links around.

But SW isn’t exactly representative either, it carries on a certain history over from EP.

@QuixoticSoul Thank you for your explaining. I don't mind accepted spanking between adults as form of sexual play. But what do you describe spanking kids, a fetish also?

@SolidHeart A particularly fucked up and criminal sort of fetish, perhaps. This is also something that’s a leftover from EP - these people get run out of most other bdsm-friendly spaces where that nonsense isn’t tolerated, and somehow end up here, and on EP before it.

Thankfully, 99% of what you read here is obvious fantasizing, not grounded in reality.

@HipYoungDude hahha