So what's with all the spankophiles?

@artistinresidence I understand much more than just a playful spanking. But the widespread obsession with children in the SW spanko community really grosses me the fuck out. At least, you can generally tell that it's just role-playing wankery around here.

@artistinresidence @QuixoticSoul I'm not obsessed with spanking children, I'm obsessed with being spanked by women. The experiences I share are my memories of my own childhood. As it happens I don't have any children myself, and even if I did I wouldn't spank them. So why have so many people on this site branded me a weirdo over the last six months? I'm still wondering that now. 🤔

@NankerPhelge I understand the desire to BE spanked as a sexual fetish. what i don t understand is the obsession with spanking children and disciplining them and sharing experiences with it. Not to mention all the pictures of children with their butts showing. there seems to be a sexual connection that they wont talk about. why would you enjoy punishing children unless it had to do with domination and submission

@NankerPhelge I don't think you're in the crowd of people that I'm talking about, tbh. As far as I can tell you're not out there writing long eroticized stories, or enthusiastically giving "advice" on what is essentially child-themed s&m.

A lot of people are uncomfortable with kink in general and might block you on reflex - but that's probably more about guilt by association than you rubbing your lifestyle in their face.

@QuixoticSoul From what I've seen on SW, people have blocked me because they don't like me rubbing the truth in their face. It has absolutely bog all to do with my lifestyle or "kink". Most people I know don't give a fluck about other people's "kinks", so there is no "guilt by association".

@artistinresidence Why would I enjoy punishing children unless it had to do with domination and submission? The truth is, I don't. Why, who said I did?

@NankerPhelge i was referring to other people who do. not you

@artistinresidence I see that now, but why have I often been tarred with the same brush as the ones who do? I'm not saying you tarred me with that brush, I just wondered why.

it is easier for people to make generalizations. especially here which is surprising since there is such a wide variety of interests here. you would think that people would be more careful about judging@NankerPhelge

@artistinresidence The thing is, generalisations are as annoying as fcuk (misprint), so why would anybody want to make them?

it is easier. annoying, but easier, that is why i ask a lot of questions of people to understand where they come from . @NankerPhelge

@artistinresidence Taking the easier route is not very often the safe way.