Trauma: Chasing pavements I spent almost a decade chasing after someone I could never be with.....

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I spent almost a decade chasing after someone I could never be with.. I don't know if you know how trauma works, but when you've had a difficult experience, whenever something else comes up, that could be related, even in the slightest to the...

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BridgeOvertroubledWaters · 61-69, M

It happened to me when I was in my twenties as well. Unpleasant and traumatic. I often asked myself why I even bothered , and never have an answer.

AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

It sounds stalkish to me. You have to ask yourself when is enough, enough! That is a decade that you will never get back. And the whole while life was passing you by because there were other things that you didnt do that you could have. You can only chase for so long then it becomes obsession.

jrcervin · 26-30, M

@AngelUnforgiven I have come to understand, kicking myself over what was lost won't make my presence any better. I look back at my younger self and understand he choose to stay out of pure love, and because he really wasn't ready to let go. I honestly wish I had realized sooner, I wish I have left sooner, but that's that. No use in crying over spilled milk.

YoMomma ·

I sent three decades fancying someone 🙄 took me that long to get over it or rather get over myself fancying them when it wasn't mutual.. 😳

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