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What do you think people say about you behind your back?

Do you ever feel like people act nice to your face and then talk bad about you or laugh when you walk off?
Nebula · 41-45, F Best Comment
I don't really care. I stick up for the people I like when people start talking shit.behinf their back though
Mardrae · F
@Nebula that’s awesome. I do that too

If they who want to speak behind my back have control over my income source, then I might raise an eyebrow, otherwise they’re to be ignored.
Loooolz I know people talk Shit about me. My super power apparently is not caring what anyone thinks of me though
JustNik · 51-55, F
I don’t think I have a strong effect on people so for the most part, I imagine when I leave their space, I leave their thoughts as well. I’m sure there are some who interpret me negatively, and I’m sorry for it, but it doesn’t really affect my life. If I heard of someone speaking ill of me behind my back, I would just understand I don’t need to interact with them anymore than necessary.
Flowerz · 36-40, F
If someone is talking about me, I am not worried about it.
Torsten · 36-40, M
i know many talk shit about me behind my back and they normally say it to people who end up telling me back.
Last thing I heard was from a woman I work with and she was telling certain people there that I dont seem to know anything. She came to that conclusion because I dont talk much.
Thats cool with me if people think that. Its always best for people to underestimate you. That lets them put their guard down around you and they feel they can say or do what they like around you and for those people who go off to others talking shit, seems to never really work out in their favor.
things never end well for two faced people
Torsten · 36-40, M
@Mardrae something my father taught me at a early age and that was never show off and if people think less of you and your capabilities, let them keep thinking that because you have all the advantages from that point forward
Mardrae · F
@Torsten your Dad sounds like a wise man!
Torsten · 36-40, M
@Mardrae wisest person i know. thanks :)
LadyGrace · 70-79
I don't care about that stuff. If they're talking about me behind my back, they're no friend, plain and simple. So not worth my time or attention.
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
I have that plenty of times , and what i learned and learned very hard and painful if thats happening to you , you'd end up gettimg very sub conscious being around them . In other words you being inside your own head while there talking to you and you'll end up loosing yourself completely from it .
Thats why i like these days being alone cause it's only me i have to live with then and im quite happy being on my own .
Gossip is a horrible thing .
I have fierce trust issues and what happened when having those trust issues it actually stood to me cause i realized i couldn't depend on no one to make me happpy only me and can i tell you another thing i goes to a fellowship and what they say is you can't do this on your own and as what Frank Sinatra says " I did it my way "
Carazaa · F
I care a lot about people but Im ok if someone doesn't like me.

God has worked hard to mold me, so haters, racist, or people who don't care about truth and love, I hope they don't like me, yep, I would be offended if they liked me!
😇
Henal · 26-30, F
I’m sure there are a few people who talk shit behind my back. I think that’s a given. There’s always going to be one or two people badmouthing you. The key is to not give a fuck and just focus on the more important stuff.
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
Im ok if someone doesnt like me what I hate is, if they make up lies behind my back & try to invove others to dislike me. I have experince of this which largely I ignore, but it can be difficult & damaging also.
SW-User
Lies that make them seem awesome and perfect 🙉

Usually they say I'm weird cause I'm for the most part a loner, but it's simply that I don't connect well with them so.

Probably others say that I'm conflictive Idk.
If people even care at all, I think they do that all the time with, me.
I think most people are so self-absorbed, the only thing they care about is how they look to you.
Yes plenty of such people around me. But only few good ones can care. But I let it go. Let them think whatever they want.
FreestyleArt · 31-35, M
I've been used. Tossed around left and right like I'm some kind of Messed up Elmo Toy.


Doesn't matter how I feel anymore. I laugh since I lost trust. Might as well let Natural Selection do its thing Until Humanity is restored as brightest it can be for the next Generation.


I hope.


There is some good people I've known including here but...it's hard to find another these days
Mardrae · F
@FreestyleArt you got that right. I avoid people IRL as much as possible. I’m socially awkward I think. Never used to be, but the older I get, the more I feel like I am.
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
No point in thinking about what people think of you in the background.

Let’s move on.
Entwistle · 56-60, M
I genuinely dont care. It's none of my business tbh.
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Eternity · 26-30, M
Probably get called motherfucker a lot.
Ontheroad · M
Not really and that's because I know there are some who do. It's just the way people are... the key is to not care what others think and just be the best person you know how to be. While that isn't possible 100% of the time with 100% of the people you know, work with or meet, I make it a practice to not care.
eMortal · M
I usually don’t give a fuck. I don’t even try to correct them or defend myself. I just move on, interact less with them. Some problems are not worth fixing.
But if it does affect my livelihood or someone I care about, I confront them and make them regret 😂
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Care less, honestly
Whodunnit · M
I'm beyond caring
Convivial · 26-30, F
Teflon cloak...
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
Meh, they're leaving someone else alone if they do.
I don't care what they think
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
@Mardrae oh☹️
Well..........
It's gotta be hot, right😁
Mardrae · F
Of course!! @Virgo79
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
@Mardrae you're awesome🤗
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
I'm positive that there's people who talk bad about me.

I don't really care though tbh. Nobody can hate me or love me more than myself 🤷
meJess · F
They probably laugh about me, or pity me. I don’t really care if they are decent when I interact with them.
Carissimi · F
🤷‍♀️ I have no control over what others say or think about me. People tend to believe what they want to believe.
pdockal · 56-60, M
have NO idea & dont really care because if they cant say it to my face then they arent worth my time
Everything they don’t have the guts to say to my face. 😎
Mardrae · F
Like what?@stratosranger
None of them have had the guts to say it to my face. @Mardrae
ReneeT · 61-69, M
There probably are, but I am not going to let them affect me in any way. I can only be the person I am😌
SW-User
I know I'm talked about at work and by family ...but truthfully I don't care ..
I'm just gonna keep being me
I used to. I found out they were and I don’t have friends anymore.
I write them off.

Their opinions of me are none of my business.
Crazywaterspring · 61-69, M
I finished high school long ago. I didn't care than and don't now.
I've felt that a lot. And it's been true, too.
Mardrae · F
What do you think they say about you?@PhoenixPhail
All kinds of things, secretly they do not know HOW much i do not care. 🤭🤔😚
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
They say I’m a 1970s style hippy.
Mardrae · F
You understand the question!!! Yaaah!! They say the same thing about me too probably @BackyardShaman
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
@Mardrae it’s totally a compliment 😆
I'm pretty certain they do, but I don’t give a damn.
Thanks for Best Comment. 😊
Mardrae · F
You’re welcome- I liked what you said about people being so self absorbed that they only care about how they look to you. Never thought of of that way, but it makes sense. @PhoenixPhail
nedkelly · 61-69, M
Don’t know and don’t care
I dont care. I am me take it or leave it.
Andromedanian · 22-25, M
nedkelly · 61-69, M
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Andromedanian · 22-25, M
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Barebum61 · 61-69, M
Somewhere,someone,it happens
Wallflow3r · 26-30, F
I'd rather not know.
SW-User
Oh hell
No tellin
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
Those who despise me cannot help but respect me. The most common statement about me is that I am very smart… said by both my enemies and friends .

 
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